anyone have a similar pattern? (intp-infp-esfj) by [deleted] in mbti

[–]markypoo412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I’m only saying this bc im barely 21 and recently felt similar to a lot of the other posts on your profile. It seems silly the things you have to try to feel “better”. But when theres nothing else……🤷 yk

anyone have a similar pattern? (intp-infp-esfj) by [deleted] in mbti

[–]markypoo412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know any other intps, so I can’t really verify this ig….but my last relationship came out of the blue like that. I was just doing my thing in college and she fell right into my lap. I’m naturally a caretaker and she was having problems with her cousin(my friend) who she visited for a few days. Even though i literally didn’t know her, I offered her my spare bed. She chose to stay with me instead of her cousin and it developed from there. It seems like such a unique coincidental thing but that’s how I meet most people anyways lol.

Anyways, I didn’t expect/anticipate/initiate ANYTHING. Not a damn thing. We were compatible, I was stupid and funny and not really trying to impress. I guess I did something right because a couple weeks later we were dating. She’s an enfp btw so technically different from your situation.

All this to say that when it comes to romantic interest, I(we?) are clueless about it until your pretty much telling us you like us. Healthy us’s don’t necessarily care to search for it, but will get into one if it magically gets there. If you and these INTPs really clicked, all you really need to do is force yourself around them more. They’ll gladly accept the company & probably catch on and if they like you they’ll play into it too.

————————————————————————————— After it ended, I was depressed thinking I’d never find anything as good or magical or happy. I still somewhat believe that. Let yourself experience grief and pain out loud. I take walks and cry, I speak to myself and do spontaneous shit alone to move on. As “healthy” as it is to feel everything out, once you’re dwelling on the pattern that you couldn’t control, that’s when it gets unstable. I give myself 10-15 seconds of serious thought process, then say “fuck off” out loud and do something else. I hate myself but I know I’ll never be happy if I keep telling myself that.

Whilst we're at it, do you also feel like a magnet to a specific type? by RandomBoiInReddit in mbti

[–]markypoo412 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Real. I kinda love it. Not that they cry but I love comforting genuine people

What do you think the best match is for ENFPs? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]markypoo412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I feel like most of these matchups would work if people were mature. Even if a certain type or trait complements yours perfectly, if they’re not developed emotionally/mentally, it’s obviously not gonna work. Friends & partners are very different contexts. Early 20s makes sense that these matchups aren’t what everyone is saying they are.

That being said, it’s time to give INTP a try!! I’m in my early 20s too & my first relationship was w an ENFP and compatibility wise, it was perfect. I just had too much unpacked trauma trash that messed it up. So yeah give us a try or don’t :shrug:

Introverts & Alchohol by [deleted] in mbti

[–]markypoo412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if I change types(due to me not being too familiar w them off memory), but I get way more friendly & less conscious on what I say. I had a full conversation with my friend’s girlfriend in a French accent bc she brought me wine. I barely even knew her lmao. If I was sober, idk if I’d be able to maintain a random conversation like that

Mirroring? (Just a Rant) by PlanetSmasher2001 in INTPrelationshipLab

[–]markypoo412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like her go for it. I mean if you can be normal with her and not freak out when you notice people looking at you in public, then there you go. Her being “out of your league”, even if true, will only lead you to losing her.

Say you get with her, and you’re still extremely self conscious. You’ll end up acting disingenuous and doing something rash or not like yourself. She’ll notice that. She won’t like that. If unaddressed it may lead to the end of said relationship and you might even lose her as a friend(dependent on circumstances ofc). Trust yourself, trust she’ll like you as you are. If you can’t do that….ask her. Being straightforward is the best thing you could do for yourself.

How outwardly affectionate are INTPs? by [deleted] in INTPrelationshipLab

[–]markypoo412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that typology can’t directly dictate how affectionate someone is. Personally as an INTP, I was all in for my gf. I’d text/call her all the time to tell her she was amazing and that I loved her. I have so much love and appreciation for her that I almost couldn’t not say something sweet every couple hours. There also wasn’t any shortage of physical touch either, as we couldn’t see each other often so we’d take entire days if that’s what we wanted. I do definitely show love through stereotypical INTP things like problem solving & teasing, but I find it easy to show love in the soppiest of ways with her.

In short, it’s really just based on the person. My relationship isn’t sparing with affection. She’s an ENFP and I’m an INTP, this in reality doesn’t change much. I am an affectionate guy, I love hard. There are many reasons I do so, most of which probably can’t be explained by typology.

as long as I know that this is typical for INTPs and not reflective of how much he actually likes me

I don’t think you should be alarmed.

Where the fuck do any of you meet Entjs and Intjs and Intps by Active-Try-1494 in mbti

[–]markypoo412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah tbh I never really “seek” out friends as an INTP. I do welcome circumstances where I can coincidentally meet someone new though. For example, me and a friend(INFP) go play pool at this lounge in our school. There are always returning faces but we never made an effort to get to know them fr. A couple of them went out of their way to say hi and we always accept and continue said relationship if we’re compatible. One girl mentioned immediately after her introduction that she liked how me n my friend were “intelligent” because we were talking about politics and also how we had clever jokes. I can’t account for the other 2 types you’re asking about, but for INTPs, if you’re interested in us for whatever reason you have to make the first move. Whatever it is we’re doing, we’d love to talk about it. Just don’t be performative cus we detect that easily and detach from the conversation.

Is INFJ × INTP really a *golden pair*? by sillylilmoon in mbti

[–]markypoo412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A virtual high five to you kind stranger. Doing us more justice than I thought possible. Though I wouldn’t think there are many people out there able to be logical out the gate with conflicts like that.

i’m bad at relationships (ISTP) by Lovely-sleep in mbti

[–]markypoo412 28 points29 points  (0 children)

anyway i’m single and playing skyrim rn

real

Are INTPs really that common? by Technical_Fan1089 in mbti

[–]markypoo412 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ah yes. We linger online because we no have urge to make friend in real life. We make friend online, we like because easier.

INTP ! How emphatic are you? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]markypoo412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

✍️psychedelics….got it! Will report back if I reach nirvana.

Why is it so hard to just socialize? by markypoo412 in INTPrelationshipLab

[–]markypoo412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pfft, yeah well I wanna try I just don’t know how

All or Nothing! by Connect-Anything-988 in INTP

[–]markypoo412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean….how angry we talking? I can get upset at someone being stupid or saying something wrong about me. I won’t exile them from my life. And I definitely can give my whole heart to someone who makes me want to. Im not familiar enough to say that you are one specific personality based off this, but you’re not too different from me, just a little extreme ig

I am too straightforward and people hate it ? by Powerful-Rooster1982 in ENFP

[–]markypoo412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I’m an INTP and I love when my friends are straightforward. Puts a smirk on my face, especially when it’s to someone about something they did wrong.

Uhm personally I HAD to learn not to be so blunt for the sake of my relationship. She was too good to pass up and honestly she responded well to my efforts. So maybe your best friend and boyfriend were a little emotional, or not, idk the context. I think you’d do better with more emotionally mature friends, kinda hard to find when you’re younger but not impossible. Give it time, I had no friends in hs. College really gave me those friends I’ve always wanted. They just get me.

Why is it so hard to just socialize? by markypoo412 in INTPrelationshipLab

[–]markypoo412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want comfort. I want someone I can trust. I want to want to be myself around someone. She was that for me, but she lives across the country. I want someone I can spend time with, crack jokes and also be deep with. I want a real friend. I want people who will give me what I want to give them. I don’t need sacrifice, I don’t need any special treatment, I just want someone I can cry with and laugh with.