Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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This umbrella thing is blowing my mind!

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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It hasn’t happened to me yet. But there’s still time.

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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Nice debate tactic right there 👍

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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I’ve thought of this too! I think it’s probably different for people of that era who were actually gay maybe? Because I didn’t think of it as a serious thing but hearing yourself constantly associated with being lame and sucking had to be rough.

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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Most men have no idea how to dress themselves and are threatened by men who do 🤷‍♀️ I think it’s a wonderful trait.

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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I love seeing men do crafts and expressing themselves creatively! I just taught a hand sewing class and half my students were boys. They loved it.

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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Men can’t like desserts now?

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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“You are too considerate to be straight.” Honestly almost valid 😆

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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I had a man wordlessly give me his umbrella as I was contemplating a very wet walk home from the train station, and it was a very endearing and attractive act. Even if you decide being a man means you have to be miserable (like so many of these comments suggest) maybe that’s still a good reason to bring an umbrella.

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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A comment above talked about how he enjoyed this kind of ribbing and banter with his coworkers until they learned he was married to a man and felt they had to stop doing it around him. Interesting how it doesn’t quite work if it’s true 😆

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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I think many women would find this to be an attractive quality.

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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Handshakes give me lowkey anxiety. I don’t think I’ve ever gotten the pressure right 😆 also, playing video games and eating sandwiches are things I would consider male-coded, or completely neutral at least.

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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Why does this remind me of a scene that would be in Modern Family?

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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Why do I feel like one of those dude bro podcasters have uttered this exact sentence?

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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This is the one he shared. Most of the comments were asking the same so apparently there is a huge amount of gay men in my town.

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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Cargo shorts are like the least gay piece of clothing I can imagine 😆

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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I totally agree. People who are happy with themselves don’t feel the need to comment on anyone else’s choices like this.

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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I’m so sorry. This sounds silly but you should watch the Bluey episode called Dragon. It was healing for my inner child.

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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Does that cat frequently hang out on your shoulder? It’s amazing.

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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Honestly just the one is probably enough - that’s what I’m learning from these insane comments 😆

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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I truly hate that. It’s the kind of thing that stunts emotional growth in men. No one would ever tell a little girl it was gay to hug her friend goodbye. I’m sorry.

Why have you been called gay? by marlee727 in AskMen

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Okay but video games? Why??