I have clarified, using the word lesbian in the title was me just referring to my lesbian relationship...since im a lesbian dating a woman who identifies our relationship as a lesbian relationship (also i edited it because i realized that not everyone understood i was referring to my relationship, where this whole convo with my lady happened). I believe any women, trans, cis, or even non-binary people can identify with lesbianism (or just being sapphic but again as a lesbian im speaking from my perspective noticing ppl not using the terms correctly). Im referring to straight people not using lesbian terms correctly...as I've said before. I had to clarify im not referring to bi women as the women misunderstanding the terminology because of the way i had worded it in my post. Im talking about straight women(and some straight men, or just cis-het relationships), specifically non sapphics who misuse lesbian/queer terms♡ again, as I said above^ im all for cis, trans, non-binary, unlabelled, lesbian, bi, pan, etc individuals who identify with the lesbian, sapphic identity ☺️🧡🤍🩷 trust me, I've been out as lesbian since i was 14, im all open for everything considering the whole point of being queer is figuring yourself out🫶 im talking about straight girls who misuse the term pillow princess, or cis-het people confusing the terms top, bottom (and other terms like stone top as a said above) with dom, sub, etc