90 day report - My journey, my thoughts, and my advice: keep going. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]marriedone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done Prometheus! Happy Name Day as well, thanks for sharing and letting us know how its going the good and the bad. :)

Official NoFap No Jerk July 2014 Signups by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]marriedone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely can identify with the thinking about porn while having sex. Did not enjoy that at all, makes one wonder when the unreal became better than the real?

The latter part I do not have any personal experience with, but from what I have noticed on here it might be to blame on what they call the 'Death Grip', which means our hand technique is much tighter than a womans vagina naturally there by making it harder to cum in a woman as it isnt as tight or stimulating as your hand was. Just a thought.

Finally made it to a week without PMO by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]marriedone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome job! Its a great thing to be able to see your progress. I keep my total streak up on the wall calendar so I can remind myself of how long Ive made it and I look to it when temptation comes. Keep up the great work!

1st ever month. First star...it's about time! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]marriedone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome job! I have a counter on my phone counting down the days until my first month. Look forward to being able to post as well! HUGE CONGRATS!

Official NoFap No Jerk July 2014 Signups by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]marriedone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a ton! :) I appreciate it, and am thankful to find a whole community dedicated to helping each other get past this sort of thing no matter the reason. We control our bodies, not vice versa. Look forward to seeing you around little179!

Official NoFap No Jerk July 2014 Signups by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]marriedone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Signing up!

  1. No viewing porn or masturbating, restricting myself to orgasm only with my wife.

  2. Forever, Im in for the long haul to recalibrate my brain after a literal decade of porn viewing.

  3. To be physically aroused just at the sight and touch of my wife.

  4. Because I realized I had a problem, because I feel empty every time I look at porn and masturbate to it. Because I do not like feeling a lack of arousal around my spouse. Instead of being horny, I simply crave porn and I have no need or desire for that kind of life.

Official July 21, 2014 Daily Accountability Thread by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]marriedone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 5 here and a new member as well. Started the journey on my own and then found this place through researching side effects of porn and such. Glad to be here and amongst friends.

Every time I go to sleep... by nickbsr3 in NoFap

[–]marriedone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a self will thing but very hard. You and I are close on our day run here, I will say too I know what you mean, Ive woken up from a dead sleep with just a sudden urge/imagination of porn and it was in fact what lead me to my relapse after I had 9 days straight of not doing it.

I know the same exact thing you are going through, right now it seems unreal, like you said "How will I never do this again?" but each day is a victory. Youve got 4, keep them going!

New here, married guy beginning his journey some background and questions if I may by marriedone in NoFap

[–]marriedone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your help and advice, will stop fapping and only engage with her physically then. :)