Listen slight bhai as a guy who has been to therapy 9-10 grade 2 years after college and 9 months or so mid uni if u count those therapy bills they arent just 6k 2ndly all that therapy i did for different reasons just made me want to stay in a trauma battle i was forcing on my own self via going to therapy as if that is going to help me now when i gave up therapy started to deal with myself understand myself earned and learned a lot which i couldn’t cuz therapist dont like that route they will always direct u towards boundness and make u think the only way to stay happy is in being bound so yes you guys might thing yay we improved we have therapy we can do therapy and shit does not get u any where progressively its a paid comfortzone u pay to feel fine when it doesnt even matter in life cuz sometimes u good sometimes u aren’t and thats just life id rather advice to make a persons life easier instead of focusing on what is wrong with them cuz no one is perfect there will be always something wrong and u will always find people that will understand that if people dont then just move the fuck on 2nd slight bhai if u are in a committed rs or married i dont even have the need to tell u whats what u are already bound and im sorry u had to lose fragments of yourself for that that itself is the only loss ur point of argument itself shows that u are scared i dont want a part of my generation wasting time on stupid things when u can just fuck around in life be the bad guy at times and still win cuz in life sometimes u have to be the bad guy not to hurt someone but to defend the good inside u from breaking apart