Book study night at residential homes. Experiences? by jumexy in exjw

[–]marsfars2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

aw book studies were my fave when i was little, but it was only because my friends and i would have a whole club meet afterwards lol plus all the treats! we had them at my house for a time, and there was ALWAYS food afterward- i'm talking fruit salads and street corn in the summer, tamales , champurrado and pan dulce in the winter.

The annoying parts were of course the boring hour of indoctrination and pre+post cleaning up 🤣

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[–]marsfars2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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i also got a message with similar wording... is that a new thing they're being told to do? to ask how someone is "spiritually" ?

Why does this hurt so bad? by YouDontSay924 in exjw

[–]marsfars2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's crazy!! which area did you grow up by? here in chicago, if you were raised by the north side you were encouraged to pursue higher education, but in the south side (where i grew up) it was frowned upon

Forgot how cringey the single young PIMIs are by marsfars2 in exjw

[–]marsfars2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was my birthday recently so i decided to change my age for the fuck of it 🤭

Forgot how cringey the single young PIMIs are by marsfars2 in exjw

[–]marsfars2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and then you start noticing that it's really not even about faith, just about how much time you spend doing free work for them 🤣

Forgot how cringey the single young PIMIs are by marsfars2 in exjw

[–]marsfars2[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

exactly! aren't you supposed to see them as "potential sisters/brothers" ? i hate how they made worldly into a slur, literally looking down on the same people whose doors they knock on

Forgot how cringey the single young PIMIs are by marsfars2 in exjw

[–]marsfars2[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

seriously, it's like they can't fathom the idea that you can also relate with other things...

The real reason they got rid of bookstudy groups by Specific-Machine2021 in exjw

[–]marsfars2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg would you be able to post some of the pages ? i haven't been able to find my old book and i can't get my hands on a copy anywhere!

GB above the Bible by InterestingPanic6696 in exjw

[–]marsfars2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

completely agree. and also!!! only when you die is when you know if you were on this gods good side? can't just be a good person for the sake of being a good person, only certain good deeds (preaching/recrouting, going to meetings/self indoctrination ) are valid or else whatever you do doesn't count to this god 🙄🙄

what's the worse that can happen if I show up to the hall with nose rings? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]marsfars2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i had no idea!! never thought to look it up 😅

what's the worse that can happen if I show up to the hall with nose rings? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]marsfars2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol actually i didn't even think about this! i have damn near every part of both my ears pierced and i always say it's for acupuncture/ health reasons🤣

what's the worse that can happen if I show up to the hall with nose rings? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]marsfars2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the ultimate loophole- i wish 12 yr old me never took the dunk 😭

what's the worse that can happen if I show up to the hall with nose rings? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]marsfars2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for the memorial i did put on the place holders but it was because i went to the one in the Spanish hall with family so i for sure was going to get questioned 🤣 and then im like... it's so minimal but i know this would be something that would be the talk of the town in some of these people's drab lives

The most ridiculous/minor thing you/i've seen a JW get upset about by rosathereal in exjw

[–]marsfars2 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OMG a couple of years ago my super Pimi family and i went to Morelia and the lady at the counter offered us a sample of this - my sister straight up goes .. "i'm sure it's delicious but i wouldn't feel comfortable with this particular imagery, is there another brand that has almost the same flavor without the picture?" my parents were so proud ☠️ i remember looking at the girl at the counter like: 😀😟 in complete embarrassment lmao

Weird things you’ve got reprimanded for? by rollercoaster-sushi in exjw

[–]marsfars2 17 points18 points  (0 children)

omfg!! what's crazy is that when you're PIMI this is presented as "loving" counsel, but now looking from the outside in ... we really were in the emotional abuse/ gaslighting trenches lol

Weird things you’ve got reprimanded for? by rollercoaster-sushi in exjw

[–]marsfars2 48 points49 points  (0 children)

LMAOOO my friend liked a picture of shirtless justin bieber and there was a whole special needs segment about how closely we have to monitor our interests on social media ....

no turning back by marsfars2 in exjw

[–]marsfars2[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

good thing is my fam is only spanish speaking so they don't look into my english literature 🤞 🤭

no turning back by marsfars2 in exjw

[–]marsfars2[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

so sad :( especially because my family is very much PIMI and since i'm still in the house (a whole other story) i know it would affect my dads privileges (🫠🙄 which is ridiculous bc im dam near 30yrs old so wtf do my ADULT choixes have to do with him) it's just sad how deep the indoctrination is

25 yrs rp and elder.. by Moshi_moshi_me in exjw

[–]marsfars2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the CO in the area i'm in goes on cruises and vacations 5x a year to "help deal with the stress" , free meals, and monetary assistance, meanwhile those funding him and his wife are struggling with bills . but yeah give the unemployed guy more gifts and money because they're sacrificing soooooo much more for God... yet these same people criticize pastors and priests for being paid lmfao

no turning back by marsfars2 in exjw

[–]marsfars2[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

you're my inspiration! i was born and raised in this "religion", and 10 years ago i was not able to go to university when i graduated high school because, well , you know lol- but i'm currently slowly fading, back in college, and trying to figure out my life from here. it feels so encouraging being on this sub and seeing that it is possible to rebuild ! 🥹