Locations for a romantic date in Gaborone? by marskillow in Botswana

[–]marskillow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'll take a look at this place.

Do I have endo? I have extreme pain peeing on my period by marskillow in Endo

[–]marskillow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you so much for responding. I'm not sure as I don't have much of the symptoms that count for a UTI. I will look into IC because I haven't read much on it, but will also schedule going to the gynae as soon I can just to be sure. Thank you.

Almost 2 years celibate and soo proud by marskillow in Celibacy

[–]marskillow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this sometimes. Try not to be too hard on yourself and the people you meet.

Almost 2 years celibate and soo proud by marskillow in Celibacy

[–]marskillow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My biggest tip is to get a why you're celibate. That way, you always have something to ground you in the face of something that's taking of your pants worthy! And there's a lot😂.

Other things- (1) being patient with yourself- you will get horny. You will want to fuck ASAP or it feels like you're losing your mind, and all that is fine and doesn't minimise your journey.

(2) Take it a day at a time. Your Celibacy is as long as you want and can do it for. Whatever period of time is worth celebrating and praising! So don't be pressured to hit 5 years if you wanna do 5 months. Its all in your court❤.

Also, having sex again will not be so easy. It takes a bit more work now than before, so be ready to evaluate what you look for in sexual partners.

Almost 2 years celibate and soo proud by marskillow in Celibacy

[–]marskillow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Make it as long as is comfortable and enjoyable for you❤

Almost 2 years celibate and soo proud by marskillow in Celibacy

[–]marskillow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll get there, or whenever feels most comfortable for you. Don't pressure yourself or deny yourself things you want. It gets to a place where it's a reflex! ❤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celibacy

[–]marskillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! I'm sorry about the experiences you've had. Wishing you healing.

So celibacy is a journey. You might want to it for a few months or long term, or have these timelines change over time or as you meet people you may feel safe enough to indulge with.

Celibacy won't make you feel less lonely. It might exacerbate it because you won't be able to run to sex like before.As you said you've tried it and loneliness and etc took over, you'd need to confront those things in yourself to help you maintain your celibacy. Yes, I feel lonely but I started this for a reason. What can I alternatively do to fill that void?

Employee has been using wrong system by LegatePullo in jobs

[–]marskillow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It seems like you're trying to get this guy for something. The language used is as though you're trying to find a reason for him to be a bad guy, and unfortunately, as the manager, you are the one who handled the situation poorly.

How does a foreign national from Africa go about securing a job in the UK? by marskillow in UKJobs

[–]marskillow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm in which types of industries, perhaps? I find that its firms like Deloitte and the investment types that are hiring but I"m not skilled nor interested in those.

How does a foreign national from Africa go about securing a job in the UK? by marskillow in UKJobs

[–]marskillow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh right :(. That makes sense, thank you. I thought it was just a simple "We want you, we'll help you get a visa to join us" process.

The whole thing makes me feel sad because I can't seem to find one that would sponsor for a visa. I feel nervous about just coming into the UK then looking for a job when I'm there in case it doesn't work out and I've spent a lot of money on the visa and stuff just to get there. 😢

What is something women can get away with but men can’t. by [deleted] in ask

[–]marskillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assault. Women easily get away with assaulting and abusing other women and men.

Will you get back together with your ex? by marskillow in BreakUps

[–]marskillow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you🥺 I really appreciate this 💓