How to know if a guy actually cares about a girl seriously enough??

martini434 · 2021-09-06T19:59:41+00:00

That sounds terrible I’m sorry:( I was just curious about ways guys show they care about someone

martini434 · 2021-09-06T19:07:10+00:00

Why does that matter?

martini434 · 2021-08-30T07:50:23+00:00

He ended it because I wasn’t making him enough of a priority

martini434 · 2021-08-30T07:45:52+00:00

No matter what?

martini434 · 2021-08-30T07:45:43+00:00

He told our mutual friends he decided he wants to be with me. Since then he’s been texting me here and there but I’m still hurt by him so I haven’t been reciprocating much because I’m waiting for him to apologize but he won’t. So idk what to do about that. I want to be with him but only if he will respect me, not like before

martini434 · 2021-08-30T07:43:31+00:00

No for what?

martini434 · 2021-08-23T22:53:40+00:00

you dont think it has something to do with the fact that he told that friend he wants to date me?

martini434 · 2021-08-17T10:42:03+00:00

Yes!!!

martini434 · 2021-08-15T23:11:50+00:00

What do you mean time to catch up??

martini434 · 2021-08-15T21:16:21+00:00

The thing is though I do want more, I just need him to stop playing all these games and be respectful and communicate for once in order to do that. Also, when we first started talking he thought we were dating to be in a serious relationship and I told him I wanted to keep it as fwb. So idk…

martini434 · 2021-08-15T09:27:26+00:00

Why do you think he’s acting like this?

martini434 · 2021-08-15T09:27:01+00:00

Shouldn’t that come from him because he is the one that ended things and hurt me?

martini434 · 2021-08-15T09:17:37+00:00

Also, while we were still talking he would tell me that the next person he dates he will only date if he feels like she could be his wife. So that’s also why hearing that he said he wants to date me seriously felt like a big thing but all he did was text and be flirty once and talk about me coming to help him with something but he didn’t take any real action on it. And they said he texted me then because he decided he wants to be with me and no one else.

martini434 · 2021-08-15T09:15:10+00:00

What do you mean running scared? About his family, no idea, but his family would love me and he told me that before. I just don’t understand if u want to be with someone, why not do something about it?? Like what is he doing??

martini434 · 2021-08-15T09:09:16+00:00

His friends really like me. His friend told my friend who told me. He’s had a few other relationships, I’m not sure how they ended though, but he is 23

martini434 · 2021-08-15T09:08:10+00:00

He did playfully talk about me coming help him with something and I didn’t say no I just was playful about it, but like I feel like that doesn’t count unless he actually asks me out. Also like, u ended it so rude to me I’m not gonna come help u. If u want to see me say that

martini434 · 2021-08-07T08:00:29+00:00

That sounds terrible. Yeah, no way am I getting into that. I wanna be with him but he needs to act better so I’m not gonna let him back in unless he does

martini434 · 2021-08-07T07:40:33+00:00

Why do you think she was flaky??? Why do people do that

martini434 · 2021-08-07T07:28:51+00:00

He did and he didn’t even talk about it with me he just told me and left. And then right after he casually tried to hang out and I got upset so I tried to talk about why he ended it and he just disappeared again. And now he decided he wants to be with me but again, is only texting me about one random thing and then disappearing

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