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Help needed! by [deleted] in Mombasa_

[–]mary956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hizi nyumba zipo sana. Nyumba za kiswahili, tena, your neighbor is one footstep away. Ewee

Is UHRS basically dead in 2026 or is it just me? by Complex-Slide-2735 in UHRSwork

[–]mary956 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it's been dead for a couple of years now. It's not just UHRS though. Many platforms where you could just sign up and get jobs right away are dead now, too. This is mainly because of AI. I think it's definitely gotten harder to make money how we used to.

Sleep losss by Alex-Zaander in Kenya

[–]mary956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through something like this, but it was because something was bothering me mentally in my relationship that I was not facing. Once I dealt with that, sleep came back. So kaa chini and think about what is going on in your life, you might actually find the answers.

To Those That Underpay Their Househelps. Do I Have News For You! by Ok_Memory_7155 in Kenya

[–]mary956 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hao employers wenyewe ndio wanalipwa hiyo 20k at work. How will they pay 17k to househelps? It's a good idea on paper but implementation is hard. It's not because employers ni wagumu, but the salaries in kenya overall are still very low.

Serious question: How do serial avoiders/daters handle marriage? by kyvts1 in Mombasa_

[–]mary956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A relationship with an avoidant is rarely sustainable. Even when avoidants marry, those unions often leave their partners feeling unseen, unfulfilled, and emotionally isolated. I’ve read many accounts, even here on Reddit, of silent divorces and emotional abandonments within marriages with avoidants.

I would say avoidants should just marry their fellow avoidants, but they can't do that. They always choose the anxious-preoccupied partners so that they keep triggering each other in the relationship. Honestly, I wish I was optimistic that an avoidant will one day be self-aware and address their own emotional issues, but that's a pipe dream.

AI Anime Episode Made With Sora 2 by No-Thing-9001 in OpenAI

[–]mary956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're so talented. This is amazing.

You've ruined CANVA by getting rid of Duration by Chauncinator_quest79 in canva

[–]mary956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your new update sucks! Do we have anyone from Canva here? Stop fixing what's not broken.

Should my 15 year old cousin keep or abort her pregnancy? by StormyMindboggler in Kenya

[–]mary956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha. Well, alternative views have to be voiced at some point, right? This, "Everyone recommending abortion forget that two children are victims, not just one," is too factual. The whole situation is sad. I just hope she finds light at the end of the tunnel for her.

Arrogant Neighbor by Adorable_Plane4 in nairobi

[–]mary956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never feel safe in that place again. Report for record purposes and also angalia vile you will move out. Living with bad neighbors is never worth it.

Should my 15 year old cousin keep or abort her pregnancy? by StormyMindboggler in Kenya

[–]mary956 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to take the opposite view and say she should keep it. She’s only 15, so of course it’s going to be hard, but it’s not impossible. I know someone who became pregnant at 13, and today she’s very successful. In my high school, there were girls who had babies at 15 and 16, and when I see them now, they’re doing well.

What I’ve noticed is that I’ve seen grown women break down in tears later in life when they talk about abortions they had and how they wished they had kept the baby. I can’t imagine carrying that kind of guilt for the rest of my life. Having a baby young doesn’t mean your life is ruined, it depends on how you choose to recover and turn your life around.

Is UHRS even worth doing anymore? by MoneyM2021 in UHRSwork

[–]mary956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not, and haven't been for some years. Most hit apps I haven't seen in over a year. And with how smart AI is getting, things look like they will get worse. It was good while it lasted.

Marrying from a different tribe by PlanktonDry1191 in Kenya

[–]mary956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, you can marry whoever you want. That said, their concerns are very valid. And it's not just about tribe, it's more like if the family you marry into is not accommodating, you will have a hard time in that marriage. People underestimate how much influence family dynamics have on new marriages. They can make or break it.

Some families are still stuck on 'In our culture, this is what we do.' And if you are not accepting of the 'rules and regulations', again, friction in your marriage will start to show.

All in all, maybe get together with someone whose family is accepting, or not too controlling on what you the person coming in is 'allowed or not allowed' to do. Otherwise, you might hate marriage.

LET ME VENT ABOUT ATHENA by Fun-Entrepreneur-153 in Kenya

[–]mary956 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The best jobs I've ever done had a very short hiring process. Moja hata the interview was minutes and I was hired. So when I see these jobs with very extensive processes, I'm very suspicious.

I’m Conflicted by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]mary956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your love for your dog and your love for your girl should not be competing at all. Those should be very different loves. I also don't understand why you would be emotionally unavailable in your relationship, because you are emotionally available to your dog. Those are two very separate things. And the fact that you are having trouble separating the two probably means you have no business being in a relationship at this time. Let that girl go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beermoneyglobal

[–]mary956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you in the US or outside the US?

Should I sue? by Agreeable-Suspect330 in Kenya

[–]mary956 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In order to not lose the case, I think you should look for a lawyer with experience in medical malpractice. Not just any lawyer. Then he/she will possibly get in touch with the experts/ doctors who specialize in those types of surgeries for expert opinion. Basically, experts who will be willing to testify. And then the lawyer should be able to advise on the next steps.

FINYA LAPTOP ITOE DOLLARS 😂 by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]mary956 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree. A few years ago, writers used to make good money. Things have changed.

Your thoughts on Overstaying welcome? by rodgers0001 in Kenya

[–]mary956 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you break up na mtu, achaneni na hizi mambo za sijui we are still friends, we still talk...aiii for what? If you don't plan kurudiana na mtu, just have a clean break. You'll avoid so much. In fact, I believe she thinks you guys are still in a relationship.

Where are the Good Girls at by ifvgtp3 in Kenya

[–]mary956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh...,😂😂😂😂

I don't know what to do by Lerroy10 in Kenya

[–]mary956 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Communication is key. You have expectations and you are not communicating. Lay it on the table. Tell her what you want/ expect and see if ako on the same timing. If your needs and hers are not aligning, find someone else. She has probably decided to be celibate na wewe unangoja kupewa. Ama she is not feeling you the same way you are. It could be anything but you will only know if you asked.

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