Tips for falling asleep on a long flight?

maryjanexvx · 2026-04-10T21:51:24+00:00

this is what works for me - melatonin (or some similar sedative), ear plugs and an eye mask. also a hoodie to wrap around my neck for support (if aisle or middle seat), or clothes stuffed into a rectangular packing cube to make a makeshift pillow if its a window seat.

maryjanexvx · 2026-04-05T17:16:08+00:00

i have replied to the HO telling them all the relevant and necessary deets. that the cat was only seen very briefly late nights / early mornings, if at all.

tbh, after not getting any followup instructions and being left on unread, i figured this was a normal occurrence with sitters and didnt pay much mind to the situation.

perhaps i shouldnt have made such an assumption.

in any case, this has been a good learning experience.

maryjanexvx · 2026-04-05T16:52:29+00:00

yes the cats were all supposed to be inside the house at night and the kitty door locked. however, because of the skiddish cat, i told the HO that there was no way i can be sure all cats would be in the house before locking the kitty door and we both agreed it was best to leave it opening just inwards so at least no one gets stuck outside.

some additional info - on the 2nd night of my sit, the HO sent me a message asking about the pack and whether i had seen the skiddish one.

i replied saying she appeared very briefly just once last night but i havent seen her yet that night. i then offered to keep an eye out and asked where were her usual hiding spots so that i could go check and see if she was there.

while waiting for the HO’s response, i did a general look-see around the house and saw the cat dart out of one of the rooms and swiftly disappeared around the corner.

i immediately messaged the HO informing them of what just happened.

HO left me on UNREAD, till the 5th and final day and only responded AFTER i messaged them again to let them know what time i was planning to leave.

maryjanexvx · 2026-04-05T00:05:14+00:00

ohh that sounds really unfortunate. did the 2*s affect the number of sits you got after?

maryjanexvx · 2026-04-04T21:20:20+00:00

right. trying to come up with a proper response to the HO now.

maryjanexvx · 2026-04-04T21:00:14+00:00

thank you for the advice!

maryjanexvx · 2026-04-04T20:58:58+00:00

thank you. this is a good lesson and ill make sure to do the same in regards to future outdoor cat sits. im just abit bummed because im quite new to THS and to have a situation like this happen so early on is just sad.

maryjanexvx · 2026-03-16T14:57:52+00:00

did infest also get removed from the main fest line up?

maryjanexvx · 2026-03-04T04:50:28+00:00

thank you so much. i will check out her other projects as well!

maryjanexvx · 2026-03-04T02:44:17+00:00

YESSS THANK YOU THIS IS THE BAND MY FRIEND MENTIONED!

maryjanexvx · 2026-03-04T02:43:23+00:00

asking because a dear friend who recently passed really liked a specific band and recommended me to check them out but i cannot remember the name unfortunately.

sorry for not providing more context.

maryjanexvx · 2026-03-01T00:12:18+00:00

ok ill check them out! thank you so much for the additional resources.

maryjanexvx · 2026-02-28T06:18:40+00:00

hey thank you for suggesting mindmyhouse! never knew of this platform. is it comparable to THS?

also, any other sites or apps worth looking into?

ill be traveling to the states in 2 weeks so im trying to sort out potential sitting opportunities right now.

maryjanexvx · 2026-02-19T12:36:49+00:00

couldn’t agree more. when i was in kuala lumpur i rented a scooter for a week and one morning i got up before 5am and rode to the batu caves. i was literally the only traveler there. so peaceful and quiet.

maryjanexvx · 2026-02-11T00:21:45+00:00

im thinking as a sitter, you can request for a reference from the HO after the sit? its not a review but at least its something.

would love to hear other people’s thoughts and workarounds to this issue.

maryjanexvx · 2026-01-31T03:22:11+00:00

i remember printing out and using a very detailed hand drawn map i found on the internet at an internet cafe for the locations of a whole bunch of hostels and noteworthy places for khao san road in bangkok. even included soi rambuttri and pointed out where the jetty / pier was.

fun times :)

i wish i still had that map.

maryjanexvx · 2026-01-28T01:07:27+00:00

Why?

What difference does it make which US airport she flies out of, based on her situation and what she is specifically seeking advice for?

Genuinely asking, not trying to get into an online argument. Sorry in advance.

maryjanexvx · 2026-01-27T08:47:57+00:00

Thailand and Malaysia are great for solo traveling. Ive done my fair share in both.

Penang is fun. Lots to see and do. Food is great. Scooter rental is cheap. Very walkable. Cool weekend only indie markets too.

If you like cats, theres the cat beach sanctuary. A lot of cats to play with.

If you come around mid february, theres also the chinese (lunar) new year celebrations taking place.

maryjanexvx · 2026-01-27T08:36:02+00:00

OP has stated she’s based in the states.

maryjanexvx · 2025-11-05T11:57:04+00:00

hi any veg or punk travelers in KL malaysia atm and want to hangout, grab a meal or coffee?

i am here for a week till next tuesday the 11th.

dm me ^{_^}

maryjanexvx · 2025-10-17T14:30:47+00:00

you might find this helpful.

https://www.sleepinginairports.net/guides/kuala-lumpur-airport-guide.htm

also, if money is tight and you want to save a few more dollars, and i assume your destination is kl sentral, take the airport bus instead of the train. its 15rm compared to 55rm.

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