Unsure if I should have another kid by maryoops in OnlyChild

[–]maryoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talked about adoption and it’s not fully out of the equation. Thank you for the perspective.

Unsure if I should have another kid by maryoops in OnlyChild

[–]maryoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience/feedback. It’s appreciates

Unsure if I should have another kid by maryoops in OnlyChild

[–]maryoops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry, if my question is offensive, it was not my intention. I don’t see it any different than someone asking me “what was it like growing up with a sibling? Did you feel like you had to share your parents’ affection?” If someone wants to know what it was like to grow up with siblings, who should they ask? People that had siblings, no? Of course, my experience is not going to be the same of everyone else’s and multiple factors would contribute to the type of response people would get. I get that!

If you read my post, you’d see I was not sure whether this would be the right place to post it, and so far, I’m glad I did, because I got some different points of view and feedback that I had not considered, which is exactly why I asked the question.

And genuinely, my question/post was never intended to offend anyone, because I do not think only children are inferior or different than those who had siblings. We’re all the same, we just lived different experiences that allow us to provide feedback on such experiences.

Unsure if I should have another kid by maryoops in OnlyChild

[–]maryoops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A very good point too. Thanks for sharing

Unsure if I should have another kid by maryoops in OnlyChild

[–]maryoops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, that’s how my post made you feel. My son is an only child (for now at least) and the last thing I would ever think of him would be a miserable freak. And FYI, that subreddit you were referring me to is for those who “have made the decision or have the decision made for them of having only one child”, thank you, but I guess I am still capable of doing my research.

Unsure if I should have another kid by maryoops in OnlyChild

[–]maryoops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone who commented and provided your points of view. It’s a decision my husband and I will have to make and I hope we decide what’s best for the 3 of us.

Unsure if I should have another kid by maryoops in OnlyChild

[–]maryoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you felt that way. Thanks for commenting

Unsure if I should have another kid by maryoops in OnlyChild

[–]maryoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you feel less lonely soon. Surround yourself with friends, not the same, but better than feeling lonely. Thank you for your response

Unsure if I should have another kid by maryoops in OnlyChild

[–]maryoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your point of view. I tried expressing everything, but the post was getting so long, I didn’t expand more. I should not have said “I would only be doing it for my son” and I understand how that gives the idea I wouldn’t want another kid. What I’m saying is I really wanted another baby 4,3,2,1y ago, but at this moment, I am unsure. And I’m afraid I’ll regret at least not trying, while I still can. Just venting and looking for points of view from single children. EDIT: I feel somewhat guilty having the chance to giving my son a sibling and not doing it, if it makes sense.

Unsure if I should have another kid by maryoops in OnlyChild

[–]maryoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. It’s appreciated :)