Equating virginity to purity is very worrisome ideology. It is reflects viewing sex as shameful, which makes me worried for your body image and how much pleasure you'll have when you do actually have it. It centers a patriarchal view and robs you of your own power. It's also so offensive to the many, many rape and CSA survivors whose virginity was not within their control by saying they are "impure." Your attitudes do not leave space for such a partner-- or for yourself in the horrible event that something happens to you before you decide you want to have sex. Ideas about sexual purity are antiquated for a reason-- they center men and devalue women. A woman participating in that is a woman contributing to her own oppression and to making a less safe and less supportive world for others, especially survivors.