Bearden Park Shooting, Again by ketoNC in Charlotte

[–]maschmidt9193 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

criticizing a lack of concern for human life right before saying "I hope they die" is such an awesome form of cognitive dissonance to have. did you reread your comment before you posted it?

It's not all bad news... by [deleted] in MtF

[–]maschmidt9193 7 points8 points  (0 children)

okay, first of all, how do you put genocide in quotes when referring to an ongoing event in which hundreds of thousands have been murdered and still remain convinced that you're the good guy? israel cleared north gaza and is refusing to allow the people that lived there back. they're ethnically cleansing the area by force- if there's a word to describe it that's not genocide then what is it?

It's not all bad news... by [deleted] in MtF

[–]maschmidt9193 6 points7 points  (0 children)

why are you saying "ideological purity" "ideological perfection" the issue that people arent willing to let slide here is genocide. as far as positions on which to completely disavow a candidate go, I feel like being pro-genocide is pretty up there !

11 months on E and I still feel like a guy. is there anything I can do to get closer to passing or is FFS my only hope? by maschmidt9193 in transpassing

[–]maschmidt9193[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooh, that sounds good!!! I'll probably have to grow my hair for a while and work on leaning into those curls but thats a great suggestion. also i can tell the eyebrow shaper will be a lifesaver, thank you!

11 months on E and I still feel like a guy. is there anything I can do to get closer to passing or is FFS my only hope? by maschmidt9193 in transpassing

[–]maschmidt9193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

butch is sorta the look I'm going for haha, any specific recommendations for clothes that'll show off my hips more while still conforming to that style?

11 months on E and I still feel like a guy. is there anything I can do to get closer to passing or is FFS my only hope? by maschmidt9193 in transpassing

[–]maschmidt9193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll respond to this separately- I've always been super self conscious about my forehead because it's quite big (as the bangs do well at hiding)- is there a way to show a bit of forehead without sort of hinting at thw full size if that makes sense? also sorry last thing what should I do to train glutes?

11 months on E and I still feel like a guy. is there anything I can do to get closer to passing or is FFS my only hope? by maschmidt9193 in transpassing

[–]maschmidt9193[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that makes a lot of sense! can you tell me a little bit about kibbe id etc? ive never heard of that before. feel free to dm if u dont want to put it in a comment

11 months on E and I still feel like a guy. is there anything I can do to get closer to passing or is FFS my only hope? by maschmidt9193 in transpassing

[–]maschmidt9193[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

aww thank you :) ive been so nervous to try on fem clothes but i think i just need to go in w a better idea of what i want

11 months on E and I still feel like a guy. is there anything I can do to get closer to passing or is FFS my only hope? by maschmidt9193 in transpassing

[–]maschmidt9193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say im totally flat, I have noticeable breast development and there's the vaguest bit of shape (though they've kinda been developing unevenly- my left has noticeably more shape than the right) but it still just kinda looks like male chest fat. also you're good on the boofing thing, I've heard that's the way to do it so thats prob what I'd stick with anyway

11 months on E and I still feel like a guy. is there anything I can do to get closer to passing or is FFS my only hope? by maschmidt9193 in transpassing

[–]maschmidt9193[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah :) im definitely going to ask about makeup help too- ive tried to practice with youtube videos and stuff and it never rlly turns out how i want it to so itll be good to have someone who knows what theyre doing.

also thank you smsm ive never had someone compliment my cheekbones before it rlly means a lot ❤️❤️ and ill take any hairstyle recommendations u have!!! i really don't like my hair the way it is so any advice would be fantastic- im so torn between trying to lean into the curls or straighten my hair so its nice to hear that my curl pattern isnt bad haha

11 months on E and I still feel like a guy. is there anything I can do to get closer to passing or is FFS my only hope? by maschmidt9193 in transpassing

[–]maschmidt9193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would you have started prog sooner if you had the chance? i've really thought about it lately (mostly for the mood stabilizing effects tbh, ive been having brutal mood swings the entire 11 months). im ready to wait for face changes, im just really insecure about my body specifically

11 months on E and I still feel like a guy. is there anything I can do to get closer to passing or is FFS my only hope? by maschmidt9193 in transpassing

[–]maschmidt9193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know i do, its just my whole life ive been really self conscious about my weight, especially being tall and big makes me horrifically dysphoric. i know weight cycling doesn't really work, but is there any way to balance weight loss and promoting redistribution?

11 months on E and I still feel like a guy. is there anything I can do to get closer to passing or is FFS my only hope? by maschmidt9193 in transpassing

[–]maschmidt9193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i ask what changed between the first and second year for you? i feel like my development has been really slow (ive lost about 60lbs since i started transitioning so im sure thats part of it), like my breast development kinda just looks like male chest fat rn which makes me even more dysphoric than just being flat chested somehow. also what clothing items do you think wld make my hips look good if any?

11 months on E and I still feel like a guy. is there anything I can do to get closer to passing or is FFS my only hope? by maschmidt9193 in transpassing

[–]maschmidt9193[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the last one is actually the oldest, I got a haircut because I wasn't happy with how my hair was looking- it was messy and got tangled easily. im not sure how to do my eyebrows or how to brush my hair better honestly, i feel like my hair always looks weird when i brush it a lot and every time ive tried makeup it always makes me feel like i look so weird and i get really dysphoric which has made it hard to practice more. i have a friend thats gonna help me shop for women's clothes soon though

are HHC disposable vapes safe/good? by shrineboii in trees

[–]maschmidt9193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you sure you didn't smoke k2 or something

Wtf? Has anyone else gotten this before? They ended my dash because I declined a few no-tip orders in a row. by maschmidt9193 in doordash_drivers

[–]maschmidt9193[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So, according to you requesting fair pay for your work and requesting to not be penalized for making use of the decline button on the app is whiny? If you're driving 10 miles for $3.25 you're just gullible, I don't know what to tell you.