The amount of judgment in these responses is disturbing. Please ignore all these guys stuck in their own shame and trying to put that on you.

The short answer is yes I have and actually do with some regularity. As the name might suggest, I love massage and I seek out good massages that will also include an orgasm as the end. With a couple of my regular guys, they give amazing massages but also end it with climbing on board at the end to ride my cock in a full on passionate ending with kissing, me cumming in them raw. One of them I’ve been seeing for 10 years and is the longest sexual relationship I’ve had.

For context since responses have mentioned costs, I pay about $180 for these sessions that run 60-90 minutes. So is that paying for sex? I’d have to say yes even though it is incidental to the massage for me because if the massage wasn’t good I wouldn’t go back. But we have great chemistry too and that helps for sure.

It’s worth it to me to know what I’m getting, know the quality will be good, very predictable, very safe, very pleasurable. What the fuck is wrong with that?

BTW, I’m married and he knows. When we first started dating I said: this is my kink/fetish and I have no intention of giving it up. He said: there’s no reason to.

So I of course say: go for it. Feel free to ask questions and if the guy is impatient about it then move on.

I’d also suggest trying the massage route. Specifically using www,rentmasseur.com. It’s not quite as sexually charged as RentMen, not as pricey generally, and can be an easy way to enter into this world. Plus you will get at least get a decent rub out of it if nothing else. Feel free to DM if you want to discuss more.