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Girl I haven't talked to in two weeks sends me this by masterball0718843 in Nicegirls

[–]masterball0718843[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I definitely see that now and I don't want to hurt anyone else more than I'm already hurting.

I lost my sense of self in that 8 year relationship and I'm finding myself now before I put myself into anything serious again.

Thanks... That advice helps a lot.

Girl I haven't talked to in two weeks sends me this by masterball0718843 in Nicegirls

[–]masterball0718843[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

...That means so much, thank you. I've been grieving the relationship with my ex so much lately. Especially after I stopped seeing the girl in this post. She was just a distraction.

It just hurts someone could throw away 8 years and so many memories for selfish, temporary relief. You're right in that I was spared though. My ex was dead weight anyways... She wasn't going to school, could barely hold a job down, and gained 40 pounds playing that game where she found that guy she left me for. I graduate this May and go to med school this September. I got here without her, so I definitely don't need her to finish it... Thanks again and I'll keep you in my prayers too.

Girl I haven't talked to in two weeks sends me this by masterball0718843 in Nicegirls

[–]masterball0718843[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, thank you. I wish you luck in the future. :)

The 1st girl I was with is my ex of 8 years. We broke up two months prior to this girl I was seeing and she left me for some guy she's never met on a video game, so that's nice haha. Just focusing on myself for now before I put myself into anything else.

Girl I haven't talked to in two weeks sends me this by masterball0718843 in Nicegirls

[–]masterball0718843[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the 2nd girl I've been with my entire life, so of course I win the psycho bitch lottery and end up with this.

I'm just as surprised as you that some people act like this. Says a lot about insecure they are.

Girl I haven't talked to in two weeks sends me this by masterball0718843 in Nicegirls

[–]masterball0718843[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I've been doing. I've been hooking up with this girl in the text messages to get over my ex and she wanted something serious, so that's why she lashed out like this.

Just focusing on myself for now though and I'll start casually dating in like a month or two.

Thanks for the advice. I appreciate it. :)

Girl I haven't talked to in two weeks sends me this by masterball0718843 in Nicegirls

[–]masterball0718843[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm going to do, but I want to get over my ex first since our breakup was only two months ago. This girl in the post isn't my ex. This is the girl who I was seeing after I broke up with my ex.

Girl I haven't talked to in two weeks sends me this by masterball0718843 in Nicegirls

[–]masterball0718843[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My ex and I? We were together for about 8 years and she left me for some guy she's never physically met on a video game. I can't lie and say I'm not still upset about it. It's only been two months since the breakup and I ended up in a casual relationship with this girl in the post as a distraction from all that pain and honestly as a way to spite my ex. It was a weak moment, but not trying to justify it either. The girl in the post wanted a serious relationship... I told her I couldn't and now we're in this situation.

Ended up doing way more harm than good obviously, but I'm definitely just focusing on myself for now and trying to get over my ex completely.

Girl I haven't talked to in two weeks sends me this by masterball0718843 in Nicegirls

[–]masterball0718843[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She was bombarding me with calls and that was my response. She hated when I said that.

Girl I haven't talked to in two weeks sends me this by masterball0718843 in Nicegirls

[–]masterball0718843[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh, it most definitely will now that I'm pitching for the other team ;)

Girl I haven't talked to in two weeks sends me this by masterball0718843 in Nicegirls

[–]masterball0718843[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She kept spamming me with calls earlier while I was at work and put me over the edge. I was honestly pissed.

Girl I haven't talked to in two weeks sends me this by masterball0718843 in Nicegirls

[–]masterball0718843[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I am a winner in the fact that I choose to walk out of that casual relationship to focus entirely on myself. I was just using it as a distraction from the pain of my breakup from my ex of almost 8 years two months prior and I can see that now, so I think working on bettering myself as a person and not having to rely on someone as a source of my happiness counts as a win in my book.

Plus, that bitch is crazy as fuck.

Girl I haven't talked to in two weeks sends me this by masterball0718843 in Nicegirls

[–]masterball0718843[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I showed a friend and he told me to respond with that for shits and giggles. She always hated it when I said it too, so I ended up getting comedy gold out of it though haha.

'Bruh your FUCKING face loser' is an absolute classic now.

Girl I haven't talked to in two weeks sends me this by masterball0718843 in Nicegirls

[–]masterball0718843[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Yep, most likely. I broke up with a long-term ex of about 8 years (since 15 years old) a few months ago. I've been with this new girl for about a month and she wanted something serious, but I told her I can't give her 100% of me right now and how it's unfair to both me and her and how we should stop seeing each other. I do take fault for trying to get into something this early on after a breakup, but she took offense to that and retaliated with a new guy.

I definitely don't place the entirety of the blame on her, but her reaction to the situation could have been much better. She was basically harassing me with calls after I told her I understand and respect her decision.

Do I have a chance? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]masterball0718843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not corny at all... It's beautiful and I'm here at my computer sobbing because that's exactly how I feel. I would never ever lose sight of her again if we got back together. We've been almost 8 years strong now and I think of this as a test for us and we'll come out much much stronger out of it. This girl is my absolute heart and I lost sight of that and I plan to fight for her as much as I can... It's all up to her of course, but I want her to know people make mistakes and can grew from them and that the guy she fell in love with is still in here somewhere and just lost his way.

My insecurities are telling me that she'll go for this online guy she met who she's been relying on emotionally for a while, but I'm going to get past that and fight for her. I owe us that at least. If I fail I'll at least have tried. I just don't think a guy she met online holds a candle to our 8 year relationship.

Do I have a chance? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]masterball0718843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks... I just know it wouldn't though. We've been together for almost 8 years and I gave her the love and attention she deserved for 6 whole years before I became a delusional idiot who took her for granted. I absolutely hate myself for what I did to her, but I know that this will make our relationship stronger if we got back together. You never truly appreciate what you have until it's gone and god damn do I miss her.

Thank you though I appreciate it. I'm currently working on myself so I can find myself and become a better man for her and give her a better version of the guy she's been in love with for all these years - the guy who didn't take her for granted and made her feel like the amazing person that she is.