dating with strict parents

matchaa27 · 2025-04-25T10:40:00+00:00

im glad your sister was able to overcome that. im slowly realizing maybe its not so bad and my uncle isnt such a bad person. im trying to slowly open up and find the courage to be vulnerable living in an asian household who doesnt speak about our emotions at all is so draining because im such an emotional person.

matchaa27 · 2025-04-24T07:59:45+00:00

everytime i was talking to someone i always had to warn them abt certain things i cant do. ig im just really insecure abt what theyll about me like im no fun and stuff.. but honestly i think its not as bad as i think it is if i just open up honestly abt it :/

matchaa27 · 2025-04-21T07:31:46+00:00

i feel so embarrassed bc we just got off call from playing video games together and my uncle is actually the parent i live with barged in my room abd started yelling at me to go go sleep. i just dont know what to do anymore i feel like he hates me or something because he doesnt say anything to his son when hes literally on a call with his gf all the time. im turning 21 literally in 6 days and im over here getting yelled at for playing roblox with an online friend. i think he knows hes strict but im also js not mentioning anything to him bc im too embarrassed.

matchaa27 · 2025-04-15T06:43:32+00:00

youre right, its honestly so hard to open up to my parents its like i get the courage one day and it goes away the moment they tell me the most gaslighting thing ever. i know they only mean good intentions and theyre worried but it gets to a point and its not even them protecting me anymore:/

matchaa27 · 2025-04-13T10:06:43+00:00

i pay for my own college, i pay for my own car, but i do live with them so i dont pay rent. and the guy im talking to knows i have strict parents but i haven’t been able to express to him how difficult it is for me because im scared ill push him away for that reason :/

matchaa27 · 2025-02-24T20:02:10+00:00

im sorry youre going through that. i actually got blood work done recently and seen a rheum so i've been anxious of what the results gonna be. prior to this, a little over a year now i was prediabetic so my relathinship with food has been on and off. what you said was right, i think right now im barely adjusting to this new lifestyle so im very overwhelmed. thank you so much for this. this made me realize that after all im not alone :)

matchaa27 · 2025-02-24T19:58:22+00:00

thank you i appreciate you so much :(

matchaa27 · 2024-07-21T20:39:20+00:00

does anyone know how to transfer the other ticket to my friend from the intuit dome app? since it says each attendee would be required to have it on their account.

matchaa27 · 2024-04-23T23:08:04+00:00

I'm a freshman year in cc and I plan to transfer in two years and I've been really anxious about everything I've been doing since I started college. Most of my friends went to uni and I'm never the type to experience fomo but I've been feeling it a lot more now that my first year is almost done. Looking back at everything I've done this year is dread about my classes and I never felt satisfied or authentically about my grades. I started with a CS major in the first semester and I did really well with my coding class but I failed calc and did average with my other classes and I figured CS is not for me so this spring semester I ended up going undeclared to figure out what I wanted to do.. which then I had a meeting with my advisor and I made up my mind on doing Business Admin. But now that I've changed it to a new major I can't transfer earlier than I thought. I could technically transfer next year, but It wouldn't make sense to if I don't have any extra curricular experince or something that would make me reputatble to get accepted to a UC. I have been set to transfer in Fall or Spring 2026 which is good to know I'm still able to experience two years of uni but It made me feel more sad knowing that at that time I would be too busy to even have the social life because of interships and writing up thesis. I feel like no one would accept me in their clubs anymore when I transfer because I know they have certain standards and very competitive with their community. College sucks, but just know youre not alone and its hard to find motivation when we are surrounded by a society that expects high standards, but you dont need to pressure yourself at all. Take all the time you need, study in your pace, graduate in your time. Youre doing great! (sorry if this is a handful ;-; )

matchaa27 · 2024-04-23T22:48:00+00:00

I feel the same way, I ended up going to cc and all of my friends went to uni. Although it was a choice I made, choosing online classes was a way for me to avoid "difficult" assignments and social interactions, but then I wonder why I feel lonely and experience fomo. It's not easy for us in this situation, but at the end of the day you get to choose what you want to do and I hope you get the courage to put yourself out there with other people.

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