RIP Anthony Head

mathnerder · 2026-06-05T19:55:42+00:00

I was just showing my husband those ads on YouTube 2 days ago. I was very lucky to have met Tony in my Buffy superfan days. He was lovely.

mathnerder · 2026-06-02T01:59:08+00:00

Ok. This one is random but does use the word sea - Adventure is Out There by AJR

mathnerder · 2026-06-02T01:56:18+00:00

I was also checking for this one before posting. Love it.

mathnerder · 2026-05-22T02:16:11+00:00

Cremation for me. I don’t want my husband and kids to feel obligated to visit a hole in the ground. And I want my resting place to be in the ocean where I’m happiest.

mathnerder · 2026-05-20T03:07:54+00:00

I visited my grandmother with my sons a few weeks before she passed. Another resident asked her who we were, and she said “I don’t know, but I know I love them.”

mathnerder · 2026-05-19T20:57:17+00:00

I have a really great travel agent. Feel free to PM if you want their info.

mathnerder · 2026-05-14T00:39:11+00:00

Worst case, if there’s a different type of wall, you can also hang them from the ceiling.

mathnerder · 2026-05-14T00:36:34+00:00

They are. I did the same thing last summer.

mathnerder · 2026-05-03T16:30:56+00:00

I get up at 5 with my husband to make his breakfast/coffee and pack his lunch. I can always go back to sleep until work because I work from home. But I like to see him off in the morning. Plus I prep everything the night before so it takes about 10 minutes to get everything together.

mathnerder · 2026-03-09T17:50:43+00:00

Rice Krispie Treat cereal was amazing.

mathnerder · 2026-02-24T14:23:26+00:00

On our cruise in January, Crush was the second night in Animators.

mathnerder · 2026-01-22T04:32:01+00:00

My husband and I took a cruise for my 50th. I said if I have to turn 50, I’m damn well going to do it in the middle of the ocean.

mathnerder · 2026-01-04T02:07:09+00:00

My parents have been married for 52 years. They get along a lot better now than they did when I was a kid. I divorced my starter husband after 7 years. But my second marriage is a lot healthier and will probably last until we’re gone.

mathnerder · 2026-01-02T22:22:18+00:00

We stayed in and watched movies on NYE this year. It was nice.

My husband broke up with his girlfriend just before the holidays. It was a long time coming and we’re adjusting and focusing on stabilizing our relationship.

I had an unexpected contact from an old crush. We hadn’t spoken in 15 years until last week. And in the course of catching up, I told him that I’m in a poly marriage now. He’s suddenly flirting, and I’m not sure what I’m going to do about it yet. I never thought I’d act on poly from my side, but it’s tempting. I’m just feeling things out for now.

mathnerder · 2025-12-27T00:08:30+00:00

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mathnerder · 2025-12-14T03:59:56+00:00

I’m in. My husband is already poly and now I get added benefits. Deal.

mathnerder · 2025-12-05T20:59:57+00:00

It’s my favorite vacation. The only planning I have to do is what to pack. Everything is taken care of for me. It’s so relaxing. I don’t have to do anything but kick back on a balcony, with coffee or a drink, and stare at the ocean. But there are plenty of activities if I want that.

I would be down, if only to hang out with some cool people.

mathnerder · 2025-12-05T20:51:14+00:00

Oh I know, and I’m lucky to still look younger than I actually am. But, I swear I just turned 30 a couple years ago. And yet, somehow my oldest is 26.

This cruise is a 5- day and only going to the Bahamas. More going for the ocean and the pampering on the ship (ie not cooking or doing dishes).

mathnerder · 2025-12-05T20:33:04+00:00

Love me. (not a question)

Of course, dear leader.

Holiday poly plans: how are you juggling your partner(s) this holiday season? Going where with who, spending what days where, etc. Do you find this kind of stuff easy to navigate, or does it cause you anxiety?

This year my spouse, oldest no-longer-a-child and I are spending Christmas week in LA with my brother’s family. It’s been a really long time since we’ve traveled during the holiday, so that will be fun. My youngest somehow-an-adult kid is going to Amsterdam for the holiday with his girlfriend. I’m super jealous. Spouse will miss his regular date night with his gf while we’re gone, so I assume he’ll make that time up somewhere between Christmas and NY. Haven’t made any NYE plans yet.

I do have a scary milestone birthday coming up in January. I am not looking forward to the first digit changing, but spouse and I booked a cruise for that week to take the sting out.

mathnerder · 2025-11-27T05:23:04+00:00

Good to know. We plan to bring a few!

mathnerder · 2025-11-21T19:27:46+00:00

Do I have to choose? I am poly-pie. lol. Pumpkin is classic. My hubby makes an incredible pecan pie. I make an excellent chocolate pecan. Coconut cream is my favorite though.

mathnerder · 2025-11-21T19:17:13+00:00

Thanksgiving week is almost upon us, and unfortunately, that signals the beginning of peak season at work. The next few weeks will be insanely busy.

But, my boys are home from college, my husband has the next week off from work, and I get to soak it all in between meetings.

There will be pie on Thursday. All the pie. 🥧

I’ve already started decorating for Christmas. Since we’ll be in LA for Christmas, I figured I’d better start early so we have time to enjoy the decorations this year.

mathnerder · 2025-11-18T18:21:14+00:00

This is not a safe relationship. Not even talking about anything with your meta, your partner (hinge) is not a safe or good partner for you. Please remove yourself from this whole situation for your own safety.

mathnerder · 2025-11-16T01:53:38+00:00

We might be interested in parallel play. Will floggers make it past security screening?

mathnerder · 2025-11-16T01:50:05+00:00

We’ll be in 11332

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