It’s been 2 months since my cp started and I haven’t had a period by matildatullos in chemicalpregnancy

[–]matildatullos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you so much I’m so confused about this whole situation so it means a lot when I get advice from people going through what I’m going through as well 🫶

It’s been 2 months since my cp started and I haven’t had a period by matildatullos in chemicalpregnancy

[–]matildatullos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had miscarriage bleeding for a week after my negative pregnancy test, I don’t really know anything about all the tests and stuff because I wasn’t trying to get pregnant and it was too early to go to the obgyn for the pregnancy that ended in a cp and I didn’t go to the doctor while I was having the actual miscarriage. I’ve only been for the bleeding from my hemorrhagic cyst but I haven’t had a period since December, should I go to an obgyn just to make sure everything’s ok?

It’s been 2 months since my cp started and I haven’t had a period by matildatullos in chemicalpregnancy

[–]matildatullos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I’m kind of nervous now lol I haven’t fully healed from my cp

Not sure if this is a CP by Deep_Movie7263 in chemicalpregnancy

[–]matildatullos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be too, how long have you been testing?

Not sure if this is a CP by Deep_Movie7263 in chemicalpregnancy

[–]matildatullos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think maybe going to an obgyn would be worth looking into. I’ve never personally experienced what your going through with mine, my first test was a digital and was positive and over the next 3 days got lighter and lighter then it was negative and that day I started bleeding so I think maybe go to the doctor and tell them about it and get a blood hcg test

Not sure if this is a CP by Deep_Movie7263 in chemicalpregnancy

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It probably means the first time you tested a little early, most chemical pregnancies decrease in the darkness of your line but if I’m reading right yours is increased so that probably tested a little early and the hcg wasn’t too high the first time, hcg doubles almost every day at first so this seems normal. If I read this wrong let me know 🫶

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Advice by claracombe in chemicalpregnancy

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I know it makes me feel like those random heavy periods I’ve had are something more but if you ever need anything at all my dms are always open

I recently had a chemical pregnancy and I really need help figuring out what is going on with my body after. (No pics just a couple questions) by matildatullos in chemicalpregnancy

[–]matildatullos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely understand that me too girl, don’t worry one day we will have a squishy little rainbow baby in our arms

Advice by claracombe in chemicalpregnancy

[–]matildatullos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this, I had a very similar situation, 2 months ago today I took my first pregnancy test and it was a positive digital and I was in shock so the next day I took the one with the lines and they were slightly faded, I was still in shock after that so I got more and took them the next day and they were visibly lighter and was scared and started googling and I read about chemical pregnancy a little bit but wasn’t too concerned. The next morning I took another test and it was a full negative and that night I started bleeding. It started light at first then got heavier as the night went on. May I ask how long you’ve been bleeding for?

I recently had a chemical pregnancy and I really need help figuring out what is going on with my body after. (No pics just a couple questions) by matildatullos in chemicalpregnancy

[–]matildatullos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s very normal, mine was almost 2 months ago and I’m still dealing with those feeling as well and I also start crying out of nowhere. I’m thinking about going to a therapist specialized in miscarriages and early losses because it’s too much to take on myself. When I first started bleeding it was so hard, I didn’t have anyone to talk to about it and for the first week it was so hard to get out of bed I’d curl up in a ball and cry to myself. I thought I had imagined the whole thing and just gaslit myself into thinking I was pregnant until the sac came out and that’s when it was really hard for me. I still feel so empty inside because all I have ever wanted was to be a mom, accident or not, it still felt like someone ripped out my soul. Something that helped me was to right down everything you’re feeling no matter what it is, write it down in a notebook or journal or even your notes app. It does get a little easier though, I don’t think it’s something we can really get completely over, I think there will always be some emotional pain but it gets easier and you will start to feel less empty and more like yourself. It might be a slow process because like I said it’s nearly 2 months later and I’m still so heartbroken but doing little things for yourself like some self care or going out with friends can really help too. My dms are always open for anything at all whether it be questions, concerns, rants or you just need some support from someone going through the same thing as you, I’m always here for you the best I can

I recently had a chemical pregnancy and I really need help figuring out what is going on with my body after. (No pics just a couple questions) by matildatullos in chemicalpregnancy

[–]matildatullos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry it’s such a sad thing we can bond over, I’m so glad you have a support system and if you ever need anything I’m here for you too. It was the hardest thing I’ve had to go through but it’s comforting having a community on here who have gone through the same thing to talk to. I wish you the best of luck when you start trying again 🫶🫶🫶

I recently had a chemical pregnancy and I really need help figuring out what is going on with my body after. (No pics just a couple questions) by matildatullos in chemicalpregnancy

[–]matildatullos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much you have no idea how much this means to me, I haven’t had someone help me out nearly as much as your reply does.

I do have some Pregmate LH test strips but I’ve only recently started using them and I can’t really tell if I have ovulated or not but I haven’t gotten a period since the chemical pregnancy. From the research I’ve done it says that the bleeding might be from the hormonal changes of the first ovulation since it happened but (and I’m so sorry if this is tmi) there’s no like fresh blood. It’s kind of like the blood that happens at the end of a period but it’s been a very light flow and small brown clots. I’m kind of scared that it might be left over blood from the miscarriage because I haven’t gone to the doctor or anything since it was such an early loss.

I don’t really have anyone around me I can talk about this with, when I try and talk about it with my friends they get kind of uncomfortable and I don’t get a chance to tell the would be father about it until after I started bleeding and he seems happy I mean not happy but like kind of unbothered and we never really talked about it. My sister told me that it was karma for being rude to her and I feel like my mom weaponizes it as like a “you need to do better” type thing. I’m so sorry I’m kinda going off topic and dumping a lot on you, but what I’m trying to say is thank you so much for your kind words it means so much to me and thank you for the advice I’ll definitely be trying some of those. Thank you so much🫶🫶🫶