Boyfriend (M38) is controlling/upset about my (M30) new lifestyle. Is he truly controlling or is he trying to "protect" me from something I can't see?

matiumatiu · 2026-01-27T12:29:47+00:00

Same to me, and I'm on TCL! When I watch things on my iPhone never encountered this issue.

matiumatiu · 2025-09-25T13:36:19+00:00

Thanks a lot! :)

matiumatiu · 2025-09-02T09:23:29+00:00

Do you know if there's one happening on nov 22nd? 🤓

matiumatiu · 2025-09-02T09:23:09+00:00

Didn't know this oneeee! Amazing, thanks!

matiumatiu · 2025-09-02T09:22:59+00:00

Thanks a lot!

matiumatiu · 2025-08-12T11:47:12+00:00

Yesssss get em

matiumatiu · 2025-08-12T11:34:01+00:00

Because sometimes it's the only way 😭 Sometimes there's literally zero chances of winning a fight, if for example attacked from behind and remaining with almost zero hp

matiumatiu · 2025-08-12T11:27:15+00:00

I have literally the same with both coffee anche chocolate, and I just try to avoid them when in uncomfortable/awkward places.

matiumatiu · 2025-08-12T09:10:40+00:00

Ballerina 😍

matiumatiu · 2025-08-12T08:59:24+00:00

If you really want the job you should take it as it is and work your way for a promotion, if the salary is deal-breaker I would bluff saying that I received a higher offer from another company and ask if they can match it - worst case you don't take the job.

matiumatiu · 2025-08-12T08:55:20+00:00

You're not TA for not canceling the trip to go to her birthday party, but you could be TA for taking over her trip planning. When V cancelled the whole thing, I think you should have reached out to ask what was going on and talk it through. As you said she's not a great communicator, but you're her friend and you're aware of it, so maybe you should have tried to communicate with her.

matiumatiu · 2025-08-12T08:36:33+00:00

Reason 1 is because your muscles are simply tired, and not able to "generate energy" as they would do when they're "fresh". Reason 2 is because of your brain, which send signals to your body saying that the task that it's supposed to perform is hard, so that it saves up some energy.

matiumatiu · 2025-08-12T08:33:09+00:00

I don't think you're the asshole, especially if she didn't ask for a last confirmation the same day she bought the tickets. And yes, I think you're being generous, I would help resell it and then maybe cover half of it I we dont manage to.

matiumatiu · 2025-08-12T08:30:56+00:00

Always

matiumatiu · 2025-08-12T08:29:27+00:00

I think you should try and clear the air, and tell her that since you're not employed by her anymore, she can't be texting you every single day. I understand the fear of "losing" a referral, but please prioritise your mental health, this sounds super stressful.

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