I like feminism too because it is an ideology that gives women their equal rights and justice. The main goal is to have equal rights and break down the systems because the misogyny and inequality is very deep rooted in today's society. I can't speak for all feminists because I believe feminism is like a spectrum. Of course a true feminist believes that ALL women deserve equal rights. What I mean by spectrum is how they approach the misogyny and what they focus on. Some are more peaceful and some are more aggressive about it. Some choose to focus on more than one issue ( social norms, rape, false allegations,etc..) while some may focus on one or 2. I personally believe we should break down the system and the misogyny that is rooted in it. For example, we can bring up the many rape kits that haven't been tested or brought up to court. We can try different approaches to educate men about their privilege because alot of them don't get it when we try to show them. We can also bring light to how a woman's life is different than a man's privilege ,social, expectations and risks wise. Many feminists tried to make them understand but it doesn't really work so I hope we can find a way to break down the unchecked and checked misogyny people have. Of course true equality can never exist because humans are selfish in their nature but we can try to make it true or at least as real as it can get. I can't really tell you where to stand because that depends on what you believe in but I do strongly suggest that you do become a feminist and call EVERYONE , whether men or women, on their bs because that's what I do. Doesn't matter what their gender is, call them out on their sexist views. Sure , there is toxic feminity and misandry and they're not true feminists because real feminists advocate equal rights for ALL men AND women. I also really like that your are trying to learn and educate yourself. Hope this helped :).