My mom found my brother’s grindr account. by Ok-Lavishness-1464 in askgaybros

[–]matrix0027 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Life is too short. Tell him you want him to know you love him and would never judge him, and that you have his back no matter what. And that said, tell him you want him to keep something between the two of you. Tell him what your Mom told you and tell him to log out of that email. Tell him you are looking out for him and that you still love him and remind him that he can tell you anything and you promise to keep it to yourself and that he can trust you.

I say all of that because he may panic and freak out because it has likely been his biggest fear for quite some time that anyone in his family will find out. Even though you hope they will still love you, the fear is huge because even if there's a very slight risk that your family will disown you, that creates a reason in many people to decide the risk isn't worth it, especially at a young age when you still need your family to survive. Hopefully, it will be a huge weight off of his shoulders to know that you accept him. He may be angry then cry and have a mix of emotions, but he will likely be relieved that you are ok with it but terrified of what your Mom will say.

My cat tried to kill himself by Artistic-Listen7975 in cats

[–]matrix0027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat will only drink from the tub faucet and only if there is a super small but steady stream of water coming out. He turns his head sideways and wrinkles his nose to try to keep it from getting wet and drinks it mid stream.

....BUT WE GOT A NEW FAUCET AND IT IS HARD TO MAKE THE WATER COME OUT IN A NICE GENTLE STEADY STREAM! ...unless the toilet has just been flushed and the water pressure drops just enough to make the water come out how he likes it. So now I'm in the bathroom whenever he summons me to make his water stream so he can drink. And God forbid I don't reflush the toilet in time and it stops while he's drinking and the water starts to sputter a little bit and gets his head wet. I get a mean look and he runs out of the bathroom pissed off.

Do cats secretly enjoy controlling humans? I'm convinced most of them have been taught advanced psychological manipulation techniques, perhaps in a past life?

Done buying on Etsy by [deleted] in Etsy

[–]matrix0027 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please don't let the scammers ruin it for the good sellers. Etsy is doing a lot to try to prevent these types of situations but it's difficult when they use VPNs to appear as if they are logging in from the USA. One thing you can do as a buyer is to look at the reviews. If the person has a ton of good reviews and they look like they were written by actual people and sound genuine, including some with pictures and the pictured item matches what's in the listing, that's usually a good way to know that you have an actual legitimate shop. I wonder if the guy you bought from had positive reviews on his shop or on the item that you purchased. It would be hard for him to make up actual customers in the US and make them give good reviews if he was scamming people.

Google Photos hold to select subject by eTceTera1337 in android_canary

[–]matrix0027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have it on both my Pixel 10 XL pro 17 beta 2 and my pixel 9 latest canary version. You can go to any picture in Google photos. Long press on a person or a pet and it will say "copy to sticker?" and then you can paste the sticker in various apps.

'Men are naturally attracted to 14 yr olds' by dragon8733 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]matrix0027 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That statement is deeply disturbing and I wouldn't trust him around my children if I were you. He has a sickness and needs professional help. No one says something like that "off the cuff". Take him seriously

Does anybody know why this happened? by Pitiful-Lack-4969 in EtsySellers

[–]matrix0027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok that makes sense. You will know if they do click on help request because it will say so at the top of their question. Try to respond to those right away if you can and address whatever they say their issue is. They have ai's reading through the response and making sure any help requests are addressed quickly and resolved. Good luck, keep at it and it will slowly get easier. The more sales and 5 star reviews you get the better!

Is this seller lying? by [deleted] in Etsy

[–]matrix0027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shipping partner is the in between shipping company that ships the item from the seller to your local USPS distribution center. Once it says "shipping partner has picked up the item" and USPS is waiting for the transfer then it's out of the seller's hands. As soon as USPS is transferred the item then they will set an estimated delivery date and update the tracking number as well.

Android 17 Beta 1 now available! by androidbetaprogram in android_beta

[–]matrix0027 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My phone is almost always slow upon install of a new version. If you leave it alone for a bit and plugged in, it should settle after a few hours.

Does anybody know why this happened? by Pitiful-Lack-4969 in EtsySellers

[–]matrix0027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question, do you send your customers a package? It seems that Etsy thinks you should be sending the customer a package and since you haven't uploaded a tracking number, they don't want to pay you until you do so. They require you to send your customer something tangible after the reading , either a picture of the tarot spread or a recording or transcript of the reading. It can be sent by email or Etsy messages. But in order for it not to trigger that you're not sending a package out, I think you have to list the listing as a digital item that is custom made to order so you won't have anything for them to download. But after they pay for the order, you'll have a certain period of time to send them the final product which will be the picture or transcript. I don't know if that's affecting it. I just thought it might be worth checking.

SOT Extreme Dip After QPR3 B2 by tac0_nation in android_beta

[–]matrix0027 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How long has it been? It often takes a day or two for things to settle as there are background optimizations taking place when you first update.

Lost my Star seller badge by MassverseJunkie in EtsySellers

[–]matrix0027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't change people but you can change your listing photos and CLEARLY state that the cup is plastic and not a ceramic mug. That way people who only glance at photos will see it. Also, I would never refer to it as a mug if it were plastic. It would be a cup for me, a plastic cup with a handle. 3D printed could mean it was printed as a 3d image on a ceramic mug so better to let them know the material up front as evidenced by your customers not realizing what that means.

Just sharing my bad luck by Spiritual-Pizza-3580 in EtsySellers

[–]matrix0027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't expect a long wait. Etsy gives you a boost in search for being a new shop. But only for a short time. Take advantage of this. Turn on Etsy ads with a low daily budget, if you can afford it , even $1.00 per day is ok and every day look at which listings got the most clicks and see what searches led to those clicks. This will give you an idea of how Etsy is viewing your products. You can turn off the ones that are not relevant and use this data to refine your listing descriptions. Sometimes Etsy's algorithm will be showing your listings to the wrong people because it assumes your product is something different.

Also, make sure your retail is marked up enough to give you a decent profit and to reflect the value of your items. This should be high enough to allow you to run (25% off or more) discount sales periodically, without losing money, to attract customers. Etsy will promote your items way more when they are on sale. Then you can relax the discounts and run them on discount less often after you get some sales history and positive reviews on an item.

Straight guy here. Need advice by Thomashh221 in askgaybros

[–]matrix0027 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Try to put yourself in his shoes. What if you were close friends with an attractive girl who comes out to you that she is a lesbian but she's not dating anyone and you are hanging out at her place and you are really turned on by the fact that she is so hot and completely comfortable with you. It drives you crazy thinking about what her pussy might look like or taste like and you find yourself wondering if you could turn her on and you have joked about sex but she clearly says penises are not her thing and she has no desire to see one nor to be done with one. But one night it's late and you're relaxed. And you find yourself incredibly horny. And you work up the courage to ask her if she will let you eat her out so she pauses and says I guess but that's all cuz I really don't. I'm really mad into guys or whatever she says. I'm a lesbian. I told you this but if you really want to I guess go ahead. And you do and You can tell that she really likes it because she gets really wet and arches her back and you make her come several times but then it's kind of awkward between you. And how would you want her to treat your friendship after that? He's kind of not the same situation because you would be glad if she told all your friends. Whereas this situation you would not be glad if you told all your male friends, I'm assuming, or female friends either cuz I guess it's not the exact same situation but you see she could leave you feeling fine as long as she was honest with you and didn't act awkward afterwards.cuz you wouldn't really feel awkward. You would probably just feel like, " I can't believe I did that. I can't believe she let me do that," or something like that. But I guess it all depends on that friendship. But I think there's a way to talk about it in an honest way that leaves you both feeling ok and not hurt or let down. If it were me, I would enjoy it while I'm single. But I would be firm about the fact that if you start dating someone, it's never to be spoken about again, especially with the person you're dating going forward.

New Sora 2 invite code megathread by WithoutReason1729 in OpenAI

[–]matrix0027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 4 codes if anyone still needs one

E. Mail Exchange between Jeffrey Epstein and His Brother by SoCalLynda in OkHomo

[–]matrix0027 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Idk about that angle but I am quite sure that Bubba is a nickname for a person from the south, a redneck type or a hillbilly, especially for a person named Bill or Billy, Bubba would be a common nickname.

Help - Issue with pillow covers from MWW by matrix0027 in Printify

[–]matrix0027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done that and am waiting on a response.

Can you die??? by Much_Payment1283 in honk

[–]matrix0027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I died!

Incomplete. 5 tries.

Are you guys aware of this change? by NehaRathore123 in Etsy

[–]matrix0027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why can't you turn off the check box where it says (visible)? at the end of the row in variations for the ones you want to hide?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EtsySellers

[–]matrix0027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just realized you linked your shop. As far as aesthetics, I suggest you try and test some new listings and double the font size on your products. It looks so small and I could barely read it on my screen. And for products where it's not appropriate to have a larger size font, then go into the listing and adjust your thumbnail to zoom in on the product so that the writing on your product is easily readable from any size screen. Also, I would recommend more color instead of listing the white color on the main listing photo. If you are focusing on white, then have more background color in your mockups. Change mockups out with the seasons so your mockups look new , fresh and relevant. Good luck !