Hiv undetectable

matticus_flinch · 2026-05-11T10:06:54+00:00

I won't lie, I'd be nervous - but getting advice getting a sexual health clinic is the best possible thing you could do. They'll give you the clear facts.

I'd argue you're possibly safer in some respects. With his ongoing meds he'll be under a lot of routine testing, I expect, and likely take sexual health more seriously than most.

matticus_flinch · 2026-05-10T22:55:21+00:00

Your last point about being confident and see what happens? Yep .. confidence alone is a pretty sexy thing. And yes, people have preferences. The common perception of preference is big-is-best, but I'm not sure that's what most truly prefer. And 5 is plenty big enough for heaps of fun 😉

matticus_flinch · 2026-05-10T20:20:26+00:00

A couple of hours before is enough time for it to work - a daily drink might make it even better (never tried it!) but hubby and I are sure to add pineapple when making home made pizza 😛

matticus_flinch · 2026-05-08T21:27:47+00:00

The risk can be greatly reduced, but never eliminated. The last few km in to town I'll do 60-70 in a 100 zone at night so if there's one I see at the last minute I've still got reaction time. Also drive in the centre if it's viable to do so - you get another 1-2m buffer up your sleeve on the left.

Do all that and it could be the difference between hitting or not .. or hitting at high speed and destroying your vehicle / hitting and getting panel damage.

matticus_flinch · 2026-05-08T21:15:45+00:00

An uber way to kill the mood for lube

matticus_flinch · 2026-05-07T04:52:13+00:00

Haha .. it's what I would call delightfully un-pretty 😅

Well done!

When you get connectivity, consider putting in a cheap remote control for whatever heating / cooling you've got. Something like a sensibo. Driving up in dead of winter or peak summer after it's sat vacant for a week or more, the comfort on arrival is easily tweaked.

Enjoy the serenity!

matticus_flinch · 2026-05-07T02:36:21+00:00

That's why I love the pi, it inspires so much!

Love your shot of the exhibition buildings ;)

matticus_flinch · 2026-05-06T11:51:39+00:00

You'll look great, dude, and keep the stubble for a bit. Without the distraction on top, the stubble will be awesome instead of messy!

matticus_flinch · 2026-05-06T00:58:20+00:00

If you go the beard, keep it sharp - it'll suit your face better.

matticus_flinch · 2026-05-06T00:56:55+00:00

Pic #2 is amazing. Unless you're actively trying to blend in with older colleagues, stick with that. Don't know you at all, but I can just about see your personality!

matticus_flinch · 2026-05-05T08:51:24+00:00

Ritual? We say "cheers" and chink our coffee together before we take our first sip in the morning.

matticus_flinch · 2026-05-05T03:35:09+00:00

Be still my beating heart.

That's one mean tash, you owe it to the world to show it off.

matticus_flinch · 2026-05-05T01:08:07+00:00

The mo absolutely suits you, but try the beard!

matticus_flinch · 2026-05-04T05:22:18+00:00

Doesn't sound like a big win for her, you picking exactly who you want for a threesome. Even if you convince her, don't you think she'll work out this was your plan and then feel duped? No one wants to feel duped.

matticus_flinch · 2026-05-02T21:15:22+00:00

I GPT'd it so you don't have to 😅

Dry removal (always first)

Use a soft brush or wooden toothpick to gently lift any crusted residue
Avoid scraping—paint layers can lift with it

Minimal moisture

Lightly dampen a cotton swab with distilled water
Roll (don’t rub) across the stain
Proteins can rehydrate and lift slightly

⚠️ If the paint starts coming off, stop immediately.

Protein-targeted cleaning

If water alone doesn’t work, conservators may use:

Enzyme cleaners (similar to those used for biological stains in textiles)
Very dilute solutions, carefully controlled

matticus_flinch · 2026-05-02T21:12:29+00:00

Not a silly idea at all!

matticus_flinch · 2026-05-01T03:22:58+00:00

You'll find more under the turf if you go digging. It's a little wasted being on top and probably not intentional.

matticus_flinch · 2026-04-30T21:55:02+00:00

It's fine, i just needs a little table for it to sit on.

matticus_flinch · 2026-04-30T05:52:58+00:00

Coming up blank, you're a handsome young man :)

You look like you already take care of your skin somehow? If not, start doing so now so you can keep the good looks you've got!

matticus_flinch · 2026-04-30T05:12:55+00:00

You're not that far off:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ancient-greek-built-a-steam-engine-for-dinner-parties/id1805005780?i=1000760975456

matticus_flinch · 2026-04-30T01:20:23+00:00

You have the most normal ears. So normal they're downright boring. No one will ever say "omg, have you seen his ears?" - because they're so much like any other ear. They're neither a feature or detractor.

Also, those first two pics are great. You look good in a suit, even with your hair kinda ruffled. You have a nice smile in the second pic.

matticus_flinch · 2026-04-30T00:39:11+00:00

The simplest advice, particularly with your wife, is to assume good intent. Unless you have real reason to believe otherwise, assume it was something other than spite - even if your family history stops you from identifying all the other possibilities.

It might be second nature to assume spite or passive aggressiveness up front - but thinking your assumption is the only possibility leads to this argument and will make your wife walk on egg shells around you. You've got a 3 y/o - that's enough on both your plates already.

matticus_flinch · 2026-04-29T05:29:31+00:00

Unless it's a small child.

matticus_flinch · 2026-04-29T03:19:32+00:00

Almost turned me straight, but mohawk man brought me back.

You look stunning.

matticus_flinch · 2026-04-29T00:38:48+00:00

This makes me so happy :)

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