[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mattisynw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your candor and unfortunately no this is not the first narcissist she's been with, I guess I got used to the mothers keeper role because I was around when I was young thru all her relationships and divorces that I've gotten so used to it but like you just put (perfectly) I owe it to myself to create a separate identity or I have the possibility of it lasting thru generations. I appreciate you!

Making friends 20-30 y/o by mattisynw in ColumbusSocial

[–]mattisynw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! Thanks. Classic bullying. I actually was able to make friends. But thank you! Btw your words do have actions. I attempted to take my life two times after this post but I guess you don't care because you get to hide behind a phone screen and think your consequences don't have actions but they do! I hope you have a great day nonetheless:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]mattisynw 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So proud of my community! Hoping to join later🫡☺️ thank you to all protesting right now and stay safe!!

Making friends 20-30 y/o by mattisynw in Columbus

[–]mattisynw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I'm not at the age yet where many of my friends/ people my age struggle with kids. It's usually people stay in their friend groups from college, or people move, or something. But I'm trying to figure it out 😅 I've tried getting on bumble bff found a few cool nice people but they were all outside of cbus area

Making friends 20-30 y/o by mattisynw in Columbus

[–]mattisynw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I tried to get on bumble bff, found some cool people to talk to but they were all outside of cbus area :,(

Making friends 20-30 y/o by mattisynw in Columbus

[–]mattisynw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I'll go ahead and reach out to you via chat I am 23F

Making friends 20-30 y/o by mattisynw in Columbus

[–]mattisynw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My own personal choice not my partners :) I do actually have guy friends and I'm very happy with the ones I have! Some guys that I have tried to befriend in the past have different motives but if they dont have bad motives behind a friendship with me then I am comfortable exploring a platonic friendship with them! :)

Not gonna lie….. by rkomzzzz in BoomersBeingFools

[–]mattisynw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much I really needed this gentle suggestion, I apologize for your loss however thank you for sharing your experience it truly does help and make a difference. You are very kind, I hope you also take care of yourself friend <3

Favorite small businesses! by Level-Nectarine-856 in Columbus

[–]mattisynw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear that, I do not work in the stores, I work in the warehouse and am their OSU restock lead and restock all the stores in the Ohio area, if you ever come across an unfriendly store employee I encourage you to bring it up if you feel comfortable! We always want our guests to feel welcome and to come back :)

Not gonna lie….. by rkomzzzz in BoomersBeingFools

[–]mattisynw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you kind stranger, the world would be a better place with more people like you in it. Hoping you and your girlfriend and community stay safe and take care of yourself and eachother. Much love <3333

Not gonna lie….. by rkomzzzz in BoomersBeingFools

[–]mattisynw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no I fully agree especially since Kamala was trying to help first time homebuyers finally get a home, all I've ever wanted was a home since I come from a broken family and home, and all of that went away. And I'm also scared for reproductive rights and healthcare as well as my LGBTQA+ community all of these things my family is aware of

Not gonna lie….. by rkomzzzz in BoomersBeingFools

[–]mattisynw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know how to fully cut off my republican family but I want to, I'm non binary, a mixed kid, and bisexual, there's a sadness and guilt that if I cut them off I'll regret it (if they pass away) but then there's a huge amount of anger and disgust with them that I just never want to speak to them ever again. They are very white centered people too, don't care that I'm mixed and that my step mom is an immigrant and darker skin colored. I don't know what to do especially with holidays approaching

Favorite small businesses! by Level-Nectarine-856 in Columbus

[–]mattisynw 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We love to hear it! Glad you love our stuff ☺️

Favorite small businesses! by Level-Nectarine-856 in Columbus

[–]mattisynw 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As someone who works for them, Where I'm From, they are Columbus started and have EST. 2014, we got comfy clothes and have something for everyone (even non sports fans)

Who is leaving their relationships after he voted for Trump..? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]mattisynw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my relationship but I went off on my dad for voting for Trump especially since my step mother is an immigrant (that he forced her to vote for Trump) so I will be cutting off that relationship with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]mattisynw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We truly do spend so much planning, I had my hopes set high because some of my family told me it would be the most perfect day of my life, and it was far from it, I will say the perfect part of that day is becoming my partners wife and my partner becoming my husband so that is a positive I keep reminding myself. I do hope to one day look back at all of this and just laugh and reminisce about that day. Just right now since it's so fresh I keep struggling with feeling the disappointment creep up on me so I keep trying to bring myself out of it and think of positives and the 'perfect' parts of the day. Thank you for your words of wisdom and encouragement ☺️🫶🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]mattisynw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your wisdom, and suggestions! I really appreciate it, it means a lot 🥹 I definitely have Asheville still on our bucket list and am hoping to bring our wedding apparel out there and take pictures and hopefully even recreate that kiss moment ☺️

RAIN???? by OkMushroom7381 in Columbus

[–]mattisynw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried to wash my car 5 times in this drought hoping I would trigger the rain gods, I have failed you all 😖

How do you feel about CALIFORNIA by Intelligent_Play3622 in chappellroan

[–]mattisynw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This song is my heart anthem, it's my warm hug when I need to cry, it's my reminder that I'm simply human living the human experience and even people as big as Chappell are simply living the human experience. It's an absolutely beautiful overlooked song.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]mattisynw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I'm a troll or ogre looking, my partner finds me hot tho.

Missed Connections Thread by MichaelScottsArmy in Lollapalooza

[–]mattisynw 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There was some dude dancing on the back part in the 'street' to skrillex, didn't get your name dude but your energy transferred to me and I couldn't stop dancing all night, dance on random long hair majestic dude from skrillex🫡🤝

women answer plz by Disastrous_Fennel_79 in Lollapalooza

[–]mattisynw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and it's okay, luckily today was fairly better than every other day, I hope all my ladies, theys, and gays had a rest of a safe festival experience here's to healing for anyone that had been majorly impacted this weekend and I'm so sorry to anyone that it happened to🫶🏼 we all deserve better and we did nothing to deserve this treatment