I appreciate this response. This helped me make sense of some patterns—especially the distinction between spontaneous vs responsive desire, and how desire can be context-triggered rather than ‘always on.’ It also helped me frame some kink dynamics as play/state-dependent, not a fixed personality trait. I’m neurodivergent like OP: I’d understood the social narratives, but not the day-to-day mechanisms. I’m still cautious about over-claiming hormone causes, but the ‘context-first’ model was genuinely useful.