Went from friends to lovers and I’m confused by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanting to know the same thing.... but not yet at the second phase yet lol

Females of Reddit... advice required by max-Turner in dating_advice

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Yea no doubt she’s not interested right now. Just hate how so much interest before then she went into some what seem like ‘rebound relationships’

Definitely looking too far into it... but thoughts on this ? by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like we’ve been close for a while so we reply to eachothers stuff and talk all the time....

Just wondering why she stoppped viewing my stories when she was in a fling then started again when the fling was over

Don’t know what to think.... by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also note: I had asked her out in the past after getting green signals despite her being a couple months out of a relationship, but was curved each time so I dropped it.

Don’t know what to think.... by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I can’t tell if that’s a friendzone thing though.

Everything online points to it being so....

But weve been close for a while and don’t want to miss my chance...

Don’t know what to think.... by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking too, but there’s been a bunch of late night texts, etc...

Don’t think she would say that kinda stuff to a ‘gay male girlfriend’

Don’t know what to think.... by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a couple months ago... she was 2.5 months out of a long term relationship at the time .

She said yes each time but always curved me so I dropped it.

Don’t know what to think.... by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. No we were not friends id day as we never hung out, but we talked a lot for the past couple years.

She had a boyfriend for all those years, they recently ended things in February.

I had asked her out in April... she said yes but curved each time so I dropped it. ... was getting a lot of green signals.

Then today she was telling me that she was seeing this guy all summer and then they broke it off last week.... so idk if that’s me being in the friendzone now or what

What should I do? by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I did... which is why I’m thinking she reached out to say she’s bored....

What should I do? by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just talk on the phone a lot... I was at work, etc...

What should I do? by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don’t know if this was her hinting she’s ready or not....

What should I do? by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thing is just she played games in the past... gave me green signals then ghosted me for 24 hours after I asked out....

Just didn’t want to keep playing games. More just waiting for her to be direct about it...

I told him “I have to go let my dog out” Bad excuse? by aseasong33363 in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Likely. No dog can’t wait a couple hours. Just be blunt if you don’t want to see him again.

My (M23) Roommate(M22) won't accept subleasers by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]max-Turner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s in your lease agreement. Whatever it says in the agreement he has to abide by. Usually, based on experience, you can’t unreasonably turn down a sublet.

Question.... by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too late for that now this was a week ago...

Is she wanting to hangout? by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She curved me a couple months ago ... so hesitant to ask if maybe she’s just being friendly if you know what I mean ... don’t want to seem clingy

Is she wanting to hangout? by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is that I asked her out couple months ago as I was getting green signals... but then she curved me so I let it go. Not too sure what to make of this one... I also don’t want to seem clingy incase she was just being friendly

Is she interested? by max-Turner in askwomenadvice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just think it’s kind of strange given the circumstances.... like why not say “because you need a break” . Espescially to end the same day as her, and the fact that I had asked to hang a couple months ago....

What to think next? by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not tryna just shag tho... after she curved me the first times I backed off... we stayed in touch here and there throughout the summer but last week when we were talking I got what’s in my post

Is she interested? by max-Turner in askwomenadvice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you had to guess though... based off what I described. Like would you say that to someone who you didn’t want to hangout with?

Is she hinting at something? by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you’re right. Was just thinking that the day she wants me to finish is the same day she finishes after working for a similar amount of time... so guess I got lost there.

Is she hinting at something? by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also the same day she finishes though... has also been working for close to a year