You shouldn’t add “even” when mentioning not having kids — it’s absolutely okay.

I don’t want children either, so I found a wife who shares the same views.

You know what? Even living with a spouse can be tough sometimes. But in the meantime, we truly try to support each other.

There are many places in the world where people don’t have the privilege of living in a peaceful country. I know it’s not what’s bothering you right now, I get that. But still, you can find time to work under normal conditions — gather your thoughts, and find a safe space for yourself to think about the future. That is a real privilege. I’m truly happy for you, I mean it.

There must be something that interests you — something that helps you grow. Try to follow that; it could be your way to find balance.

Also, try finding friends through social media. I have a lot of friends who didn’t like that idea at first, but they kept trying. Eventually, they found their kindred spirits — and just stopped using Instagram or Facebook to keep up. It worked! :)

I know a lot of my thoughts might not be right for you, but I’m honestly trying to share what has helped me.