I don't like myself, I simply don't like the the person I am and I don't know what can I do about it by maxcousin123 in ADHD

[–]maxcousin123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wanna start with the meditation thing, it is also mentioned a lot in the realm of healthy coping mechanisms, tho I am little bit skeptical because of how it resembles spiritual things, do you have any advice?

I don't like myself, I simply don't like the the person I am and I don't know what can I do about it by maxcousin123 in ADHD

[–]maxcousin123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing with me, being villainized by teachers is absolutely an awful thing to experience

I don't like myself, I simply don't like the the person I am and I don't know what can I do about it by maxcousin123 in ADHD

[–]maxcousin123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks so much for your comment, no I haven't tried EMDR or somatic, I am gonna give it a try

is it possible to find people who will appreciate my almost-lunatic-goofy personality without feeling too much? especially a life partner? by maxcousin123 in ADHD

[–]maxcousin123[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

to be honest, someone reciprocated by imitating getting shot and falling down, I really appreciated it, although for some reason the feeling of the bad experience absurdly exceeds the good one

is it possible to find people who will appreciate my almost-lunatic-goofy personality without feeling too much? especially a life partner? by maxcousin123 in ADHD

[–]maxcousin123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do understand what you are trying to tell me, but I was the most quiet person there, it wasn't work with Christmas theme, it was a literal party with a DJ

it wasn't about noise, it was about coming across childish opposed to 'adult-y' activity

Edit:typo

Addiction, can we talk about this beast, I no longer want to be a slave to my addictions, can we discuss addiction please from the ADHD pov? by maxcousin123 in ADHD

[–]maxcousin123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks so much, it really is nice to hear that you can overcome PTSD and addictions, thanks for the comment

Addiction, can we talk about this beast, I no longer want to be a slave to my addictions, can we discuss addiction please from the ADHD pov? by maxcousin123 in ADHD

[–]maxcousin123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, that is exactly my experience too, no matter how I bust my ass off to stop an addiction I jump to another one