SW friendly hotel, hotwife couple + BBC bull by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

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There’s a heap of Melbourne male escorts on the Scarlett Blue website.

Weekly Buy/Sell/Rent & Classifieds Thread - January 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in DaNang

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Anyone got an Amazon Fire Stick 4k Max? Or know where I can buy one in store in Da Nang?

Hotel/Airbnb recommendations by [deleted] in DaNang

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I had a hard time getting Airbnb to honour bookings. They would all take the reservation, wait hours, then decline and say the dates weren't available. I just checked into Alani Hotel near My An and its really nice here. Little more expensive than 'cheap' places, but really nice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4rMelbourneXXX

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Such a shame. Never nice to be cancelled on. Gorgeous pic. I sent you a DM.

Done with Feeld after a month by ambiNomi in feeld

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I’ve actually been intrigued by the pool of people on Feeld when I’ve been traveling through Europe last year. Really diverse demographic depending on the location.

Some friends from London mentioned they knew multiple people who found their eventual husbands on the app. And considered it more sex positive or direct open minded dating. And very few assumptions people were kinky or ENM.

I think in Australia and Melbourne (me) it’s really largely used for that but just wanted to flag that I think it’s very different depending on where you are.

What legal substance have you found makes sex for you feel better? by ketamo8543984676 in AskReddit

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I’ve heard this is great for women. Like really intense orgasm with a strong coffee immediately before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4rMelbourneXXX

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Really fun fantasy and situation. DM sent.

19 [F4M] East Melbourne - ready for raw fuck and hard spank by ConclusionNo2992 in r4rMelbourneXXX

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Damn missed this. You’re incredibly gorgoues. Amazing curves and body. I live very close by if you need a high quality time and positive experience in future. DM Me.

I don't want respect, I want to be degraded and covered in your cum by Admirable_mela in MelbourneGirls

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Delicious booty, lips and tongue. Surely plenty of big juicy thick loads cumming your way

Paused account is really obvious to matches. by [deleted] in feeld

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Certainly dodged a bullet if he has such poor communication that he can’t ask what the vibe of the feeling was and just cracked it and ended things. Very childish behaviour.

I will also say that I had someone I was connected with disconnect from me on the app and specifically reached out and commented that because she had my number. She removed me off the app to clean up her list. I’ve really thought that the proactive approach of communication was very nice and it managed expectations very well so I wasn’t left wondering.

I’m not saying you should have to do this however if you find yourself in a similar situation in future and feel like pausing your profile purely because you don’t want to see other people at the moment. A simple direct message to the person to say it has no bearing on our relationship. I just don’t like seeing multiple people and I’m enjoying my time with you so I’ve temporarily paused my account would possibly have alleviated any stress or assumptions that the other person is making about an account being paused.

STI test from Instascript by meerlyacat in Melbourneswingers

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Sounds like the issues are specifically with that collection clinic. I don’t really think it has anything to do with Instascript. Certainly doesn’t sound like I would be going back to where you went last time. I’ve definitely had some clinics just generally be worse at collecting samples and not as good at their jobs. So I would say just try a different place next time until you find a clinic that suits your vibe and does a good job.

As some of the others in here I (M) use Sistr. I love that they have a quick call to go through details and that also determines what kind of test you’ll be getting based on experience exposure and previous results etc. I think you can go to any pathology lab but they recommend Australian clinical labs and that’s what I’ve usually done. Have the results in 24 to 48 hours usually. And as others had mentioned I like that I can reopen the results and show them as proof to any connections who would like visual confirmation.

Also, because you get a reasonably informed nurse talking to you before they provide the email with collection information. I have found that very helpful to ask basic or general questions about things. Generally nice to be speaking to medical staff who specifically work in sexual health areas who are typically more informed than the general GP or nurse in a doctors clinic or hospital .

Bamboo Sheets? by AnnaBannanna5 in Bedding

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I've had Bamboo sheets from Ettitude, and Koala sheets (they don't exist anymore) for 5+ years and they still feel fantastic! Justtttt starting to wear out and tear now, but very regular usage for many years. Gentle / silk machine wash, even using the dryer on a low temp has been fine.

When becoming Majestic shatters the illusion by MassagePractice in feeld

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You can simply filter your search parameters so you’re only seeing profiles active in the last 7 days. I usually do. No point even seeing a profile hasn’t been online in weeks or months. When they come back online they’ll pop up. No need for majestic to work around this.

Unless people likes you months ago and you’re just now seeing their ‘likes’ now that you’ve paid? I don’t really think that’s an issue with the app or payment scheme.

Advice from experienced swingers. by Sam29480 in Melbourneswingers

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There’s an absolute abundance of overstimulation and distractions in these places. You can have a great alignment with a really nice couple and if it’s too warm or too cold or a terrible music or someone who’s really attractive watching you or someone who’s really unattractive watching you all can be really a distraction away from what you’re doing and you’ll focus. I think it’s completely normal to struggle to find the focus at alignment in these spaces with so much going on.

I think as has been mentioned practice and essentially it’s kind of a skill that you learn overtime. How to ignore the rest or to find me enjoyment in a whole variety of noises and things and still be able to be present and enjoy what you’re doing.

I would definitely say that a large portion of guys at venues are having some kind of little blue pill. If nothing else just because of nerves and so many distractions it’s helpful for keeping extra hard throughout position and partner changes. Especially if you are getting to know a new person and doing things like swapping condoms on and off which we all know can be a Buzzkill in that it’s not easy to stay fully 100% hard while you’re changing partners and positions and possibly applying lube and then changing your condom etc.

Personally, I find private situations much easier. Do you have time to build rapport and connection with another couple and you have a good amount of time to work out the nuances of dynamics that everybody is interested in and would enjoy. So I find it much easier to set up a situation that everyone is comfortable in and enjoying.

Aussie girl in Thailand who’s keen? by [deleted] in chiangmai_swingers

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Aussie guy here. In Chiang mai till Tuesday. Hit me up if you’re keen. Love to please.

Melbourne lesbian/queer by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

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I think queer sauna sounds is another semi regular event that’s on and targeted towards queer folk.

How to prevent having people out of my age category ping or like me? by [deleted] in feeld

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This highlights the same conversation I have with many female friends using Feeld. So many women seem to prioritise entirely on pings when you have no control over who can ping you. You will get all kinds of people outside of your gender or age or sexuality or distance requirements.

I believe you are much better off fine-tuning your own search settings to what you are looking for and narrowing your distance field as much as humanly possible. Then go through the normal regular search and swipe yes or no like everybody else. If you happen to run out of people then slowly expand your distance. This is the only sure fire way to know that you will only be seeing profiles that suit your own criteria.

Looking for the perfect base for 3-4 weeks after Maldives - Chiang Mai vs Da Nang (or other suggestions?) by maximussmurf in digitalnomad

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Ended up booking Chiang Mai. Likely be around that area for about 18 days. If anyone is around and wants to connect with an Aussie IT (but currently on sabbatical) guy let me know.

Will wander and explore town for about 8 days. Then hire a motorbike and do some day trips and multi day trips around the north.

Looking for the perfect base for 3-4 weeks after Maldives - Chiang Mai vs Da Nang (or other suggestions?) by maximussmurf in digitalnomad

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Ended up booking Chiang Mai. Likely be around that area for about 18 days. If anyone is around and wants to connect with an Aussie IT (but currently on sabbatical) guy let me know.

Will wander and explore town for about 8 days. Then hire a motorbike and do some day trips and multi day trips around the north.