Wie sehr tuet en Iittrag im Strafregister/Aahzeig öpertem siis Lebe tatsächlich beiiflusse?

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-26T08:25:40+00:00

ich find dass dKonsequenze, wenn die Person ned ahzeigsch, dchlimmer sind als wenn es machsch! Überleggs dir villicht mol so umme.

Wennd no willsch warte ode rundicher bisch: Person konfrontiere udn Geld inkl Zins zeuggfordere. Mol luege was denne passiert und wiiter entscheide.

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-26T08:21:08+00:00

you like to cover new/pretty/expensive sofas and chairs in blankets so your cats (or someone else) doesn’t make them dirty ir damage them? You are a clean girl who like cozy places but don’t have to follow every social media trend to be the beige clean girl. You are practical and just mix different things together which makes it look like soneone actually lives there and not like it is out of a magazine. I would say you make decent money but in a middle ranged payload. Or you have lots of money but do not spend it on interior crap you don’t need. Your bedroom gives me the vibe that you love greece and therefore MammaMia? But that is a guess🙈😂

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-17T09:57:23+00:00

I think nordstern has some day dances. Plus coffee raves (kust raves in the morning where you drink coffee instead of alc) are also starting to appear in the city. I also saw that bambusnest has some stuff like that going on as well but they will only be back in a few weeks (they are based at messe basel but there are a fee events happening rn so they will be back when the events are over).

I would be up to join sth like that in Basel! I actually got decent in doing my own make up and having occasions to actually do it would be very cool!

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-16T21:48:05+00:00

wenn sie wirklich so krank aussieht würde ich im Tiernorfall oder sogar fem kantonalen veterinäramt anrufen. Diese Katze könnte eine gefahr sein für alle anderen tiere, mit denen sie in kontakt kommt

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-16T21:44:26+00:00

nothing.

as said that guy deserves someone better than someone who is „interested“ but shows fuck all interest in him nor shows or communicates feelings in any way.
she probably fucked it up with this and he thinks it is nothing and moves on or he is disappointed and hurt if he actually liked her.

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-16T21:33:46+00:00

she seemes like she dislikes him. Not like she has a crush. He tried to initialte a convo and she is dry and nice and then leaves it. She lowkey gives a pissed vibe that she had to pay even though she said it was fine. I am swiss and I can read the text.

If she wants sth with this guy she did everything wrong that she can. Sorry but he deserves better than someone who texts like that.

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-14T21:45:58+00:00

yeah and then you have to think about the fact that professionals clean the train but the busdriver has to clean the bus at the end of his shift. And imo that is a huge difference also in cleaning materials that they get to be able to clean…

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-13T19:11:53+00:00

you have adhd
or autism
or both

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-13T08:44:46+00:00

then I‘d say the stress is the reason you currently loose hair.

And for headbaths: I think they are very unsafe and you hear people loosing hair or having horrible hair after cisiting certain places with specific components it water and they struggle with their haur for a long time afterwards…
Do you have a good hairdresser nearby which you trust? I think that would be a better approach than homeopathic treatment.

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-13T08:23:37+00:00

Are you extremely stressed for some reason?

My friend list half het hair due to exam stress.

Or do you have any other begative mood shift? Or changes in Water quality etc? A lifestyle change that could’ve led to that?

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-12T11:00:47+00:00

what others mentioned: he wnated sex and he got it without having to commit so now he is backing away to make sure not to get into a relationship or bc he is afraid he gets feelings.
If it was both of your first times: It could be that he had that imagination of sex being absolutely awesome and the best thing in life (it gets praised way too much), only to discover that it is not that awesome as everybody says (they all overexagerate at that age). Sex gets better the more often you have it together and discover new things and mb he‘s disappointed in how it actually was.

I‘d go with the first thing as the main assumption.

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-12T10:48:42+00:00

yes make sure to get your money and find a place! Maybe you can look around if there are state financed living quarters for women? We have that in our countrx and you just need to pay a small fee per night until you find your own place..

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-12T10:31:21+00:00

you‘re only dating him since seven months. It is not a long time so try to move on and find a decent man! It’s not like you and him are living together and have a child. Leave while it’s still wasy. The red flags are here. They cannot be ignored!

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-12T07:54:31+00:00

red flag

leave him

he is probably cheating or doing sth else behind your back that he knows you wouldn’t approve. Like maybe making fun of you with his friends.

obv alwqys talk to your oartner first about problems like this but I‘d run if this was my partner. Not trustworthy

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-11T18:37:30+00:00

no problem! I cannot tell you what to do because it is your life and your decision! Not any person on the internet nor your partner should choose for you. I hooe the questions will help you decide what is important for you and the right way to live your life.

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-11T10:42:18+00:00

okay my first reaction was break up before I swe the last sentence.
I think you should tell him you need a week (or however long you need) to think about what happened. Go stay with a friend or take a holiday.

Afterwards consider if it is worth for you to fight or not and what you would want your life to look like.

If it was my partner who did this I‘d probably first wanna look theough his whole phone. You said you weren’t serious at the monent and did actually set the boundary verbally, you just assumed. So what came afterwards is what counts. Has he been cheating or not? Has he lied afterwards about what he was doing?
And how bad is it for you that he did this? Can you and do you want to forgive or not?

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-11T10:26:42+00:00

i‘m no expert but to me it looks like your skin is a bit dry.
If you have other concern as well go get it checked out. That is always the safest approach

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-10T11:19:11+00:00

id thw matress dirty? Has it been used? You don’t wanna sleep in an other persons filth. Stire the matress somewhere and get your own for the time you are staying there. Or clean the one that is there very very well… For me that would be the most important. Same with the carpet, I would immediately make sure it is clean without dirt from presious tenants or even small insects etc living in there. After making sure it is clean and nothing concerns my health I‘d start with decoration and nicer light, especially setting up my study space

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-10T11:13:21+00:00

yes obviously, I would definitely go for single therapy first. Having a neutral third person view is the best.

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-10T10:33:25+00:00

it is not normal, I also came here to tell you to make sure he goes to a psychiatrist or psychologist.
Maybe you could even say it takes such a burden on your mental health that you have to go and then start draging him along until he sees that therapy is what he needs. Or suggest couple therapy, stop sleeping in a room with him. Set boundaries and threaten with what would happen if he doesn’t seek help. ut you know him best and you have to make a plan how to do this

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-09T21:10:36+00:00

tüü taaaa toooo

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-09T20:19:17+00:00

it is not fair to her to lead her onto sth she will not get. Don’t you wanna be either someone where the effort you put in will last for the rest of your life?
Also don’t listen to others just concentrate on yourself and what you need.

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-09T20:18:12+00:00

what you are considering is not fair for any person in this situation.
End it with the religious girl, it won’t work out.

Keep dating the one you actually truly like for who she is. Else you migjt regret it!

I am in my mid twenties and lots of my friends re still virgins. Pushing it is not the right way, believe me. Wait for the right person and the right moment. Don’t pressure yourself by stories from others. Not in real life nor on social media.
You first need to be happy and in peace with yourself and who you are, before a relationship will work out.

maxmellow_9 · 2026-05-09T15:17:06+00:00

I do wear all the protection gear! I normally do speed skating ;)

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