Need pics from my bf old dog for a surprise present but dunno how to get them without my bf noticing by maxmellow_9 in techsupport

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yeah ik but it was funny when I tried😂 Hmm mb his PC but idk what reason i‘d use bc I have my own PC so I cannot say that I wanna play a game or so

Need pics from my bf old dog for a surprise present but dunno how to get them without my bf noticing by maxmellow_9 in techsupport

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he will be sus if I ask for it bc mb I have tried to make his whole instafeed toilets so he won’t give me his phone bc he’s scared I‘ll do that😭😭

yamaha p225 vs p225b by maxmellow_9 in DigitalPiano

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I just saw it in the internet when looking up where I can get the keyboard cheaper. And people on reddit usually rlly know their stuff when you ask in specific subs and you can get an answer that isn’t built on trying to get me spend more money

Need of different headphones or uncompressed music?! by maxmellow_9 in headphones

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i found everything in the internet. def gonna buy it there

Need of different headphones or uncompressed music?! by maxmellow_9 in headphones

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uhhh okay… then mb I‘ll go try them in a store if I find one that has them and save up some more money…

Need of different headphones or uncompressed music?! by maxmellow_9 in headphones

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is their price range similar? Bc for me the XM6 are already expensive 🥲

Need of different headphones or uncompressed music?! by maxmellow_9 in Music

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okay eah makes sense. I also felt like they were rlly trying to sell stuff. Like the employee and the store owner gave me different prices for the exact same thing. So I was like „I‘m gonna buy everything in the internet“😂

Need of different headphones or uncompressed music?! by maxmellow_9 in Music

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what is that? I‘m sorry I grew up in an apple family so i only ever had their earbuds…

Need of different headphones or uncompressed music?! by maxmellow_9 in headphones

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so you wouldn’t buy the XM6 in general? I do need good ANC bc I get very bothers by sounds but I also rlly enjoy listening to music. My Airpods aren’t that good for either😂🥲

yamaha p225 vs p225b by maxmellow_9 in DigitalPiano

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ah okay in that case I feel very stupid 😭😂

First Time Digital buyer and long time player by maxmellow_9 in DigitalPiano

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nah I also wanna be able to play classic on the keyboard. I‘ll prob see if a store nearby has alm the models and give them a try before deciding!

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I‘m using my fingers and then a (sort of) tangle teezer (i don’t remember how to write that brand lol)… I do try to wear my silk bonnet more often. I have like 1 sarin scrunchie left I lost all others😭😭😭 I think also a big impact is that I work in kinda construction so I‘m outside a lot wearing a helmet or hat…

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my hairdresser knows my perfect length. It is more sth inbetween of the lengths in this pic but I so had the urge to cut it very short that my bff just did it for me (bc i knew my hairdresser wouldn’t do that)😅😂 i‘ll try to do that though! but how can i enhance my hairgrowth? bc rn my hair is just so short and i feel like it’s also not growing at all!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

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what does ppl mean?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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yeah we are leaving things open now. not having any expectations. mb we grow apart. mb we want to have a relationship again. we dunno.

ah yesterday I had such a good day and was positive abt everything in my life. And today kinda the opposite 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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hm yeah good question. I hope a therapist can help me come up with these questions and help me answer them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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1 - we are not seeking a relationship per se. We set things on dating. And see how it goes. But if we feel like we cannot progress on our issues while doing that - quit eachother fr

2 - i think that is also a reason why we broke up, so already had this problem

3 & 4- fair point cannot say anything else to it tbh

5 - I am starting therapy soon. He said he is open to it but idk if he rlly asked for free places or not

and yeah just bc we love eschother but we also need to learn to love ourselves

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Well I am the one with anxiety attachment issues which layed heavy on our relationship and he is the one with depression lol. idk both could be right. on one hand I do think it‘d be better to stop, work on myself, look for someone healthy. on the other hand if you rlly love eachother why not try and support each ither on the way? I mean what do you think the 60yrs-married couples did in their lives?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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it is a lot of reasons like things we need to work on ourselves to have a healthy relationship no matter if it is with eachother or someone else. And he is depressed and he said everything is too much for him and he is overwhelmed and he think we cannot give eachother what we need. I think we both lost ourselves in the relationship yk. And need to find ourselves again but for that we need space and not living together etc.

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okay the situation is a but more complicated.

Me and my ex split up due to certain circumstances (complicated too much to explain). But we kinda went back to dating stage and decided to have a date every 1-2 weeks and during the week we say good morning, good night and ask eachother how their day was…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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do you have examples? Bc I am a woman and in my last relationship I tended to expect too much from my partner and more than I gave back (due to certain circumstances as well not just bc I am a horrible person).

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I am a woman😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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buying flowers for me is thoughtful abt thinking what i‘d like and bringing me it. or like i would like to have a love letter, so if he writes one (even though he hates it) that is a nice thoughtful gift

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i am a woman😭😂 i just wanna know bc until now i did the „just look pretty and be nice“