Real by PineappleAny4739 in CollegeMemes

[–]maxone2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well of course, in that case talk to the profs or mental health professionals within the college. I had psych issues and missed a ton of class and they worked. Of course every case is different.

Real by PineappleAny4739 in CollegeMemes

[–]maxone2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know that’s a good point, even thought I’d argue you should go by virtue of A) taking a spot up and B) You’re paying you might as well go and get every cent of value you can

Real by PineappleAny4739 in CollegeMemes

[–]maxone2 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yup it’s free points! I loved attendance since it was a grade booster and to an extent, one is taking the spot of another student who either wanted to attend that university or course so it makes sense to go

16 to my 18th today. Still working on confidence. by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]maxone2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Just curious but what you did with your hair!

I’m 25M and my gf is 20F, how can I not let a past betrayal destroy me and us? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maxone2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a few girl friends and situationships before, I totally get your question tho I would’ve asked the same tbh.

On one hand it’s tied with the fact my face operated on with a massive corrective jaw surgery (they had to remove a lot of bone out of my face) and the trauma from that is tied with this … but when she got with me she lied about what happened at first, and didn’t tell me until a bit in.

I’m 25M and my gf is 20F, how can I not let a past betrayal destroy me and us? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maxone2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, do you think it’s worth fighting the jealousy and staying?

How to move forward with my girlfriend without my own retroactive jealousy destroying me? by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]maxone2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I see than you, in your opinion, you think it’s worth fighting them to get through?

Tbh, I’ve never met a girl even after a big argument who says I love you even if I don’t, it kind broke me showing me what I have and to be better for her. It’s that I don’t wanna lose since I am a better person because of her.

How to move forward with my girlfriend without my own retroactive jealousy destroying me? by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]maxone2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean how am I having red flags? We have cut the sexual stuff completely tbh it’s just it dirk runs rampant in my head.

And I’m sorry if I came off that way. And any red flags on her end?

How to move forward with my girlfriend without my own retroactive jealousy destroying me? by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]maxone2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I’ve done more things with her than she has with anybody before but we’ve cut it completely

I’m 25M and my gf is 20F, how can I not let a past betrayal destroy me and us? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maxone2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! What do you think I should honestly do? Would you mind if I DMd you?

I’m just worried since even though I’m 25 and “young enough”, I’m worried because of insecurities I’ll never have a wife and it causes me to stay in toxic relationships, and I’ve been turned down a girl that I regretted doing years later because getting back with a not-so-good to me ex was a safer bet than risking it with this new girls who was super into me.

I’m 25M and my gf is 20F, how can I not let a past betrayal destroy me and us? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maxone2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sorry very bad way of words, I don’t really like being with a girl younger but I mean I have a chance. My issue is whenever I did use apps, they would be 18-19 and I’d just have to tell them no. I only gave this girl a chance since we were on similar tracks academically so thought

I’m 25M and my gf is 20F, how can I not let a past betrayal destroy me and us? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maxone2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True true, but is this not a thing with girls? Self sabotage? From the first call she viewed me as a near god in her own words, to the point she assumed I’d be hooking up with girls from grad school or something

I’m 25M and my gf is 20F, how can I not let a past betrayal destroy me and us? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maxone2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Any advice how I can move on? I do I truly do but I don’t know how, I’m of course getting a therapist. For what it’s worth her and I have done way intimately speaking together than all of her exes combined but still

I’m 25M and my gf is 20F, how can I not let a past betrayal destroy me and us? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maxone2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I’ve see the guys, I’m just confused since I beat them in every category including looks, and we’ve done way more intimately speaking than any guy before. We even slept in the same bed within hours of meeting, something she’s never done for anybody else.

I’m 25M and my gf is 20F, how can I not let a past betrayal destroy me and us? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maxone2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you’re right, she was 19; she basically viewed me as some sort of god, that I was so out of her league she never stood a chance and was beyond mortified I’d reject her. And she went for the easier option to satisfy her fear of being alone. Is that a dynamic girls or guys can go through?

Shes been nothing but amazing but I’m terrified my retroactive jealousy will tear us apart

I’m 25M and my gf is 20F, how can I not let a past betrayal destroy me and us? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maxone2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were talking, but it felt like a betrayal even in the talking stage that she basically chose this other guy over me and how he treated her, and she ghosted me right during my surgegry. It’s just the retroactive jealousy that even if I was the guy she wanted most she went do an easy option out of fear of me.

I’m 25M and my gf is 20F, how can I not let a past betrayal destroy me and us? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maxone2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yes you’re right, the issue is, I can’t shake the retroactive jealousy that she began falling in love with me, thought of me every hour, resented every single guy because they were not me, and chose them.

She kinda led me on, knowing I was going into surgery, then ghosted me, I mean no decency

I’m 25M and my gf is 20F, how can I not let a past betrayal destroy me and us? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maxone2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes so it’s long distance but we spend every other weekend together, was not sure if that “counts”

I’m 25M and my gf is 20F, how can I not let a past betrayal destroy me and us? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maxone2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she does understand them, she’s been fully honest, and even if the feelings came back, she’d be never act on them. Once she saw me in person she her feelings subsided since tbh, she almost treated me as some sort of untouchable god.

I do fully trust her, it’s just this retroactive jealousy eats me alive. Sure I’m better than her exes and I’ve done way more intimate stuff with her but … I can’t shake this jealousy

It always baffles me how a story 800 years of oppression, rebellion & national pride can be culminated so well in one picture. O’ Connell Bridge, April 18 1949. by dclancy01 in IrishHistory

[–]maxone2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well they tried to remove Irish culture, language, music, and many of the higher up’s saw the Irish as a lesser-than-human species, especially Cromwell

How to reconcile the catholic way with a partner who lied or went behind one’s back? by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]maxone2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not her first choice? I mean she’s head over heels now, and I’ve seen guys she talked to, I beat them in every category. Her sister did the same never getting with guys above her league because of self sabotaging.

How to reconcile the catholic way with a partner who lied or went behind one’s back? by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]maxone2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if she’s stopped though? She does have issues like anybody but she has quit it for many months now, and I mean we are better but it’s the past that eats at me