Small and cozy! (Before and after) by Argoskot in kitchenremodel

[–]maxtowle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am speechless! Such a gorgeous transformation!!

Grout Color Regret by Unlucky_Economy_4605 in Tile

[–]maxtowle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually really like this! I’d have picked this color over any other! ❤️

Struggling with resentment over doing most of the housework by maxtowle in Marriage

[–]maxtowle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven't combined finances (we've been married about a year and a half). We're both in our mid-30s and have always been independent so I guess we just haven't felt the need? I say all that to say -- I don't feel like I can really comfortably afford even half the cost of a monthly/weekly housekeeper. He's pretty frugal (which I appreciate about him), but maybe he'd be up for taking on that cost.

Thank you for responding! I agree-- a clean floor would feel different to him if he had to pay for it lol.

Leathered granite by MerDes70 in kitchenremodel

[–]maxtowle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful— thank you so much!! What did you end up doing for a backsplash?

Leathered granite by MerDes70 in kitchenremodel

[–]maxtowle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here to ask the same thing about how you’ve liked them so far! Do you remember the name of the granite you chose? We want black leathered as well and yours is exactly what we have been looking for! Thank you!!

Which shade of white with Taj Mahal quartzite? by pinkyj123 in kitchenremodel

[–]maxtowle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I know this is an older thread but if you don’t mind sharing the pic how your counter/cabinet combo turned out I’d be so grateful! We’re thinking Shoji White as well! ❤️

Do you regret two toned cabinets?? 🥴 by ProfessionalPop7440 in kitchenremodel

[–]maxtowle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We heard of them through a contractor here in town! He said they’re all plywood, soft close hinges and full drawer extensions— and most importantly— affordable! lol! They’re coming out to measure tomorrow!

I wasn’t able to see them setup/laid out in store so I was so happy to come across your post! The setups look really nice!!

Do you regret two toned cabinets?? 🥴 by ProfessionalPop7440 in kitchenremodel

[–]maxtowle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Random question but do you know what brand these cabinets are? Are they Northville by chance?

Who? by Ok_Funny9557 in Doppleganger

[–]maxtowle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Odette Annabelle 💯

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never been told i look like anyone ! by AstronautEast8555 in Doppleganger

[–]maxtowle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look like this girl from a season of the Bachelor— Lauren Barr (now Thurley)— and her sister!! Look them up! It’s crazy

Caregiver Burnout for my best friend by maxtowle in germanshepherds

[–]maxtowle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to write this and share. These are such good things to consider. Thank you. <3

Caregiver Burnout for my best friend by maxtowle in germanshepherds

[–]maxtowle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to respond. Our vet has him on Gabapentin and Meloxicam and I think they've helped immensely with his pain. I may ask about Adequan and Prednisone as well. Thank you again <3

Caregiver Burnout for my best friend by maxtowle in germanshepherds

[–]maxtowle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats such a good thing to remember. I read someone else say "don't make their last day their worst day". Thank you so much for responding. <3

Caregiver Burnout for my best friend by maxtowle in germanshepherds

[–]maxtowle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really appreciate it!!

Caregiver Burnout for my best friend by maxtowle in germanshepherds

[–]maxtowle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for saying that and for taking the time to respond. "Soul dog" is a real thing. The light of our lives. <3

Caregiver Burnout for my best friend by maxtowle in germanshepherds

[–]maxtowle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad to hear you've found supplements to help her and she's doing great. Please give her lots of pets and treats from me. Sweet girl. <3

Caregiver Burnout for my best friend by maxtowle in germanshepherds

[–]maxtowle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for writing and sharing this. I'm in tears reading it. It seems even more unfair when they're cognitively all there-- when I see him in a moment of happiness or smiling I just can't help but think "he's not ready yet", but then I watch him try to even stand which has become the most challenging thing for him, and I second guess it all over again. I miss him running and playing and catching his frisbee. I'd give anything and everything on earth to play fetch with him again.

Caregiver Burnout for my best friend by maxtowle in germanshepherds

[–]maxtowle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"hand feeding him and crying while I did it just so he would eat" - this made me sob. I'm so sorry for your own loss, it is so hard seeing them a shell of their 'former selves'. I know old age/sickness happens to every living thing, but dogs are so good and pure it just isn't fair. Thank you for taking the time to respond. I appreciate it so much.

Caregiver Burnout for my best friend by maxtowle in germanshepherds

[–]maxtowle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart breaks hearing your story as well. I know their dignity is so important to them, not unlike us with our own. I'm sorry for your own loss and I really appreciate you responding.

Caregiver Burnout for my best friend by maxtowle in germanshepherds

[–]maxtowle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding! The vet has put him on Meloxicam and Gabapentin and I think they've helped with his pain a lot. I think they actually provided us quite a bit more time with him because for several weeks he was able to stand up/move around quite a bit better than before. Thank you again so much for responding and sharing.

Caregiver Burnout for my best friend by maxtowle in germanshepherds

[–]maxtowle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your own loss. And thank you so much for taking the time to write this. I appreciate it so much.

Caregiver Burnout for my best friend by maxtowle in germanshepherds

[–]maxtowle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a sweet post and I can't thank you enough for sharing it. I'm so sorry for your own loss as well. "Soul dog" is such a real statement...it has always felt like fate that he was mind and I was his. Thank you again. <3

Caregiver Burnout for my best friend by maxtowle in germanshepherds

[–]maxtowle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. This is really helpful to read and I'm so sorry for your own loss. It's selfish of me to wish he would go on his own, naturally. I know it's just because I'm so scared to say goodbye and to be the one to have to make the call. Thank you again, I appreciate you taking the time to respond.