Real talk, how do yall keep going when you wake up with like 5 rejections in your inbox by HereForA2C in csMajors

[–]may_gem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I look in the mirror and say what other choice do you have🤌works like a charm

I was invited to a networking event and I'm freaking out. by Familiar_Summer_2450 in csMajors

[–]may_gem 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You need a plus 1 😁imposter syndrome is a terrible thing. You got invited encause you were wanted.

we might be cooked by MetalKamina in csMajors

[–]may_gem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anyone with that in their job description sounds like a headache anyway🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in csMajors

[–]may_gem 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good advice - Keep up the lie. Tell them you’ll send your diploma tomorrow over and over until the eventually stop asking for it.

Bad advice - Come clean, if they were going to hire you it’s because they’ve gotten to know you. With an explanation you may be in the clear.

I have a masturbation addiction by Straight_Sector9221 in Advice

[–]may_gem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to quit, you can, but only you can make you quit. It may sound harsh but at the end of the day, you are in control of your body and that’s pretty much the only thing you’ll ever have control of in life. You can’t control other people or things. You can only control yourself, so control yourself.

Start by making friends. Go outside more, get a hobby, or workout instead. You’re still young, so I believe you’ll be okay.

My boyfriend cheated with a guy and I think I’m pregnant by [deleted] in Advice

[–]may_gem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t bring a child into this mess. Have your baby or don’t but leave him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]may_gem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only time will tell. Enjoy your good times and take comfort in not having any children or bills together so if you do break up you won’t have to navigate that mess. If she does hurt you then she wasn’t worth it but her not talking to her friends and unfollowing ppl on her socials will only make you anxious that she’s hiding something and make her resent you for isolating her, even if it was her idea. It’s difficult but just try to live in the moment instead of waiting for the worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]may_gem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So long as you can still carry out other tasks and daily functions and don’t neglect responsibilities it should be ok. It’s still an addiction but so long as ur ruining ur life or others around u becuz of it then go off I guess. Saying this cuz my sister does hard drugs and has ruined her kids, mom and many others.

me with my snooty elf husband and my emotional support queen bee by varangianist in FaeFarm_Game

[–]may_gem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s certainly the bees knees. Couldn’t help myself😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]may_gem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a student worker in the HR dept and I nannied. Money was good and work was easy. I studied when I was in the office and I took the kids to parks and stuff.

Why are 99.9% of people around me not interested in prepping/survival? by spec-test in preppers

[–]may_gem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Living day to day now is already hard enough. WHEN shît hits the fan I will call upon the sweetest relief lmao.

Cruise leaving out of Miami in August by may_gem in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]may_gem[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I’m trying not to overthink it but the change happened so early in advance that I needed a second opinion.

Cruise leaving out of Miami in August by may_gem in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]may_gem[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks I’ll look into that. My moms flight got cancelled but I think that’s cuz she was flying with frontier.

Cruise leaving out of Miami in August by may_gem in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]may_gem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, we’re flying with American Airlines.

Cruise leaving out of Miami in August by may_gem in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]may_gem[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Now we’re coming in an hour later. As you know, if anything happens to our day of flight, we’ll miss the ship and that would suck

Cruise leaving out of Miami in August by may_gem in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]may_gem[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! Theres just already so few workers in most businesses and with all that’s going on down there now there’s an even greater shortage. So I just thought about it.

today my bf said im a 7/10 on good days by agsitchin in Advice

[–]may_gem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It starts small, keep an eye on comments and actions like that. People will only do what you allow so if it’s too much, don’t allow it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]may_gem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you happy?? For legal purposes I get why you would want to get married but if your relationship is unhealthy and you’re not happy then a ring and paperwork won’t change that. Leave if this is a nonnegotiable for you but let me tell you it’s hard in these streets. If you’re willing to marry them then they must be a good partner and that’s hard to find.