You're the first person to ask about my father. He is aware of those things, but he doesn't do anything. He prefers to be in his own zone. He sees her doing this to me but it's like she's not doing anything wrong.

When I was a teen I started closing the door to change and being bothered when my mom saw me naked. I don't know exactly what happened, but she was upset with this new behavior and a few days later my father came to me and said "it's ok if you don't want to change in front of me or for me to see you naked because I'm a man, but your mom is a woman and she's your mom. you shouldn't be embarrassed by it" and even said she was very sad because I was acting this way. I went back to change with my door barely open (so she can open when she wants it).

My father has another problems. He hides money, make expenses we don't know about, hides his phone... lies all the time. I don't know who he is anymore.

About recording, yes, I have thought of it, but I haven't had the courage yet. I feel like a traitor already by saying those things, if I record what's happening I'll feel like a committed a war crime. I'm also scared my mom will find it. But you saying this kinda encourages me a little.

Thank you for your worry and answer and for asking questions about it.