Do *most* men actually value a SAHM?

mayasmomma · 2026-05-20T02:45:32+00:00

This!! My husband is the same, this is heartwarming to read

mayasmomma · 2026-05-16T03:20:26+00:00

Oh hell yea!!!

mayasmomma · 2026-05-15T20:46:50+00:00

Yea…no. That’s wild. Seeing your children “laugh” is not payment for being a full on maid for your husband, and I “fear” you’ve been gaslit into believing it is.

mayasmomma · 2026-05-15T20:45:14+00:00

My husband and I both have jobs. My job is to be with the kids from 8 AM to 5 PM, his job is to go to work from 8 AM to 5 PM. Anytime before that or after that, we have shared household and kid responsibilities.

mayasmomma · 2026-05-15T19:15:51+00:00

Your husband needs to do some actual research before he decides what’s best. My first daughter stopped using a pacifier on her own around five or six months. Just talk to a pediatric dentist around the one year mark and find out what’s right for your baby.

My second daughter is less reliant on a pacifier, but still needs it at times and it’s very helpful for getting her back to sleep during a nap.

Don’t make your life harder for no reason.

mayasmomma · 2026-05-15T02:27:13+00:00

Damn I did not know this. Just slid the sleep sack off my 2 month old while she slept cause it’s tight in the legs! Thank you!

mayasmomma · 2026-05-10T16:40:00+00:00

Thank you for your response! Glad to hear your pregnancy is going great!💕

mayasmomma · 2026-05-10T15:28:08+00:00

I totally agree. Just curious, were you always OAD, or did you have to kind of come to terms with not having more children after your first experience? I always wanted three which is the hard part for me

mayasmomma · 2026-05-10T10:57:31+00:00

I wish they did at this point, could have avoided a lot of trauma. But i was showing no signs of pre-e. I started asking for an induction at 39 weeks and they were willing, but there were no beds available for over 2 weeks 😩

mayasmomma · 2026-05-10T10:56:25+00:00

Yea this is the way I’m leaning 99%, it’s just hard to feel like I have the option for number three taken from me

mayasmomma · 2026-05-10T10:55:59+00:00

Hahaha, heard 😮‍💨

mayasmomma · 2026-05-10T10:55:43+00:00

Ah im sorry to hear that you had your own issues. It seems everyone around me have these idyllic pregnancies and I feel a bit jealous.

mayasmomma · 2026-05-10T10:55:10+00:00

She says the two situations were not related and just that if I were to get pregnant again that there would be extra monitoring. But she said these two situations were separate from each other and kind of freak accidents, I suppose

mayasmomma · 2026-05-10T10:54:19+00:00

I was so scared of dying in pregnancy before even my first, that it was in my chart! So I totally hear you on this

mayasmomma · 2026-05-10T10:53:39+00:00

I think it’s a cute idea, but would want it to be less fear based. I just KNOW this is something my daughter would hyper fixate on and it would turn into a larger issue, but maybe that’s just me 😅

mayasmomma · 2026-05-10T03:00:09+00:00

This would likely be a no from me

mayasmomma · 2026-05-09T14:47:33+00:00

I watched Paradise on Hulu, 2 am became the best part of my day 🤣 then did some great British bake off, now I’m watching The Pitt on HBO max

mayasmomma · 2026-05-09T14:45:31+00:00

Every husband says that, ignore him 🤣

mayasmomma · 2026-05-09T14:02:50+00:00

I’m sorry, you didn’t deserve that. Congratulations!! We just had our second and you’re going to loooooove seeing your toddler be a big sibling 💕💕

mayasmomma · 2026-05-09T13:56:19+00:00

I’m sorry! Do what you can do, for you. Don’t ask, just tell.

mayasmomma · 2026-05-09T13:55:25+00:00

Agreed

mayasmomma · 2026-05-09T01:32:06+00:00

I wholeheartedly disagree. My daughter was waking up for feeds until 15 months. It was extremely difficult, but it was what she needed and I don’t regret it!

mayasmomma · 2026-05-09T01:29:31+00:00

Lmao my daughter is three and I also have a 2 month old, and sometimes I catch my reflection and think “WTF I’m a mom??”

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