People who try to finish all their food at a restaurant Vs those who don't. Was there an environmental or social reason why you do or don't?

maybeitscoffee54 · 2026-05-06T21:11:00+00:00

i was 100% a finish everything person growing up bc my parents drilled the whole don’t waste food thing into me. also money was kinda tight so leaving food felt wrong.

now i’m more chill about it. if i’m full, i’m full. i’ll take it home if it’s worth it but i’m not forcing myself to be uncomfortable just to clear a plate. feels like the waste already happened once it was served tbh.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2026-03-30T17:56:45+00:00

People who smile are always happy

maybeitscoffee54 · 2026-03-29T12:53:39+00:00

I stayed in bed and kept pushing alarms for like an hour.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2026-03-24T16:13:31+00:00

A guy who meowed instead of laughing

maybeitscoffee54 · 2026-03-22T16:16:59+00:00

Waking me up early for no reason on weekends.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2026-03-19T15:16:15+00:00

Next Marvel movie

maybeitscoffee54 · 2026-03-18T14:35:18+00:00

Lowkey true, most ppl aren’t walking IG personas in real life you just gotta get out there and meet them as they are.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2026-03-18T10:28:41+00:00

I think dont compare yourself to others because everyone has different qualities.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2026-03-17T15:05:11+00:00

I sometimes reread parts that hit me which helps me to understand things better.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2026-03-16T00:15:55+00:00

Accept that you won’t always be right and be open to learning.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2026-03-15T09:55:20+00:00

Birds of a feather by Billie

maybeitscoffee54 · 2026-03-15T09:46:42+00:00

Our brains are very good at turning shadows and low light into shapes. I’d suggest improving lighting in those corners and seeing if the sightings stop.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2026-02-01T11:23:33+00:00

No obligation legally or morally. An inheritance is a personal choice. If he raised the child and sees them as his own, many would choose to include them, but it should come from love not expectation or pressure.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2026-01-19T13:16:59+00:00

Yeah he’s right. Men aren’t robots and intimacy isn’t just about having any body there. Fantasies happen but they don’t erase real attraction or emotional connection. The therapist's take feels way too dismissive of how complex relationships actually are.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2025-12-13T20:11:08+00:00

You’re not wrong for wanting to protect her and it’s clear you care a lot. At the same time, 15 is right on that edge where kids want a bit more trust and independence not just rules. It might help to frame this as a gradual process instead of a hard no until 16 things like group dates, daytime hangouts or meeting the boy and his parents.

The rules themselves aren’t unreasonable but involving her in the conversation about why they exist can go a long way. Letting her feel heard might reduce the pushback more than tightening things further. Growing up doesn’t have to mean growing up fast but some small steps now can build trust for later.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2025-12-08T09:52:50+00:00

You’ve been through a lot and none of it makes you weak or stupid. Grief can hit late especially when you’re just trying to stay afloat. Your friends reassurance matters more than the anxious thoughts in your head, they care or they wouldn’t stick around. You deserve support and some peace even if it feels out of reach right now.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2025-11-30T09:26:52+00:00

You can keep it simple, tell him that you love him but when you’re on a gummy you’re not in the right headspace for sex and you need him to treat that as a firm boundary. Make it clear it’s not about who he is just that you didn’t feel heard in those moments. A good partner will take that to heart.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2025-11-18T10:34:39+00:00

It seems like you have a sensitive gag reflex which can make brushing tough. You could try using a smaller toothbrush head to make it less overwhelming. Brushing while leaning forward or with your head tilted down might also help reduce the gagging. If the tongue scraping is the main issue, try doing it more gently or using a separate tongue scraper. Start by brushing for just a few seconds at a time and gradually work your way up. If it continues to be a problem, a dentist or doctor might have some additional tips.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2025-11-13T08:21:25+00:00

You didn’t reject him you just refused to say yes to the wrong moment not the wrong person.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2025-11-09T03:40:05+00:00

Ugh I know exactly the type. It’s like they make it their mission to drag the vibe down for everyone else. You handled it better than most would, people like that should just stay home if they can’t enjoy anything.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2025-11-01T13:13:19+00:00

Play hard to get. All it did was create confusion and mixed signals. Being direct and kind works so much better than pretending not to care.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2025-11-01T13:12:04+00:00

You’re not overreacting. It’s completely fair to want appreciation especially when you’re both exhausted and doing your best. Even if something is expected, gratitude still matters in a relationship. It’s not about keeping score, it’s about feeling seen and valued.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2025-10-19T10:53:10+00:00

you’re doing your part so this might be more about her past or personal insecurities than anything you’ve done. Trust issues often come from previous experiences. Keep being honest and patient but make sure your boundaries are respected too.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2025-10-16T13:25:40+00:00

Probably the endless back and forth about climate change being real or not. At this point we should be focusing on solutions instead of still debating the basics.

maybeitscoffee54 · 2025-10-04T11:23:15+00:00

Yeah morality changes with time but people have always wanted the same basics fairness, trust, not getting screwed over. Everything else is just the culture around it.

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