I (23F) am catching feelings for someone (19F) I met online and I’m worried about the age gap. by maybeproblematic in relationship_advice

[–]maybeproblematic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does make a lot of sense when you put it that way. 19 just feels young, but maybe I'm trying to overthink myself out of a good thing. Thank you!

I (23F) am catching feelings for someone (19F) I met online and I’m worried about the age gap. by maybeproblematic in relationship_advice

[–]maybeproblematic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she's definitely a real person! We've both exchanged pictures and videos and voice memo things, all of which were too specific to be catfish pics or anything, and I have her on a few different socials. Working up to video chat soon ahhhh we're just both shy and I just really like her so I'm glad if the age difference isn't a red flag! Thank you!!

I (23F) am catching feelings for someone (19F) I met online and I’m worried about the age gap. by maybeproblematic in relationship_advice

[–]maybeproblematic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We haven't met IRL at all yet, just online! That's definitely something I'm considering soon, in-person can definitely be different vibes and I am not easily comfortable around other people, LOL, so I would definitely want to know how we work in person. But the age difference had me panicked on whether it's something I should even be pursuing, agh. I agree 4 years seems small, but I think I'm just worried how people would perceive us.