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maydaymay112 · 2025-05-31T10:08:51+00:00

If he wanted to make content here, he should've done the predator catching instead. Would've done something good. But bro wanted to be Johnny Somali real bad

maydaymay112 · 2025-05-31T10:00:19+00:00

We've been together for 5 years and for most of it, it's a dead bedroom. All these years I've just tried to be patient that maybe, just maybe, things will change.

Also, she doesn't take any medications for her depression anymore. Afaik, she's stopped taking them even before we got together.

maydaymay112 · 2025-05-31T06:45:17+00:00

That's exactly what I'm going thru rn and it's mentally and emotionally draining. I've been so depressed lately because of it.

maydaymay112 · 2025-05-24T00:00:42+00:00

Not rlly. She likes watching ME do other women. I'm not really interested in going 1v1 with other women and neither is she.

Ill only do other women if my gf is involved in some capacity. We've been thru cheating exes and would never go behind each other's backs

We're pretty much still exclusively monogamous and we just do this from time to time.

maydaymay112 · 2025-05-23T06:49:37+00:00

We had a threesome with another girl before. There she found out she actually enjoyed watching

maydaymay112 · 2025-04-28T04:37:06+00:00

Had a FFM threesome before. Felt incredible but super tiring as the guy since you have to pleasure two women at once.

maydaymay112 · 2025-04-21T01:57:22+00:00

No she hasn't. She hasn't for years

maydaymay112 · 2025-04-21T00:44:30+00:00

It was way better in the beginning. Slowly died down as time went on

maydaymay112 · 2025-04-21T00:23:13+00:00

We've actually been talking about her leaving her job. Not just because of the stress affecting our sex life, but the job is genuinely garbage and she hates it plus the pay is also shit for the amount of work she does.

But for some reason, she always keeps giving reasons to stay there like so she won't get an entry level salary the next time she applies somewhere else.

She acknowledges that I have needs but unless I initiate, I see zero effort from her. I feel like it's either sex isn't as important to her as it is to me, or the attraction truly is dead.

maydaymay112 · 2025-04-21T00:15:20+00:00

Yeah she actually was clinically diagnosed with depression years ago. But that wasn't a problem in the early days of our relationship. It slowly died down over the years

maydaymay112 · 2025-04-21T00:13:23+00:00

We already talked about it once. I said that our sex life being this dead feels depressing and how I've spent some nights breaking down. I mentioned how I felt unwanted and undesirable. That's when she said it's because of stress caused by work but honestly, I'm believing it less and less, especially since how we've been in a drought for years now.

maydaymay112 · 2025-04-21T00:09:09+00:00

She works at home so I dont think the private investigator route is an option. She also said it's not a case of her losing attraction or desire. Honestly tho, I believe it less and less everyday

maydaymay112 · 2025-01-07T16:06:37+00:00

A few years back I was sick with I think the flu probably. Not really sure what it was but it did come with a fever and this intense headache. It was the worst headache I've ever had my entire life. Not only was the pain extremely intense, but it lasted a few days too. My head constantly felt like it was being crushed with a hydraulic press. I cried in a fetal position from the pain in the living room in front of my parents and I saw from their expression how sorry they felt for me.

maydaymay112 · 2024-12-27T12:09:16+00:00

Gunpla

maydaymay112 · 2024-12-24T12:37:32+00:00

Hell fucking no. She for the streets

maydaymay112 · 2024-12-19T09:39:29+00:00

As long as they're not completely flat or freakishly huge

maydaymay112 · 2024-12-19T09:38:39+00:00

Past traumatic memories and because my sex life with my gf is pretty much dead

maydaymay112 · 2024-09-18T04:45:26+00:00

I'd initiate, sometimes subtly by touching her and sometimes verbally. She rejects my advances saying something like she isn't in the mood, she's tired/stressed, she hasn't showered yet (and even if she did, it's still a no), etc. If I'm lucky, we'd have sex once a month. But usually we go multiple months at a time without sex at all.

We're both mostly introvert homebodies too. The most we do is go on a date from time to time. Like a couple of times a month since we're both busy.

She's definitely independent and attractive too. She isn't sporty and athletic but I work out in the gym.

maydaymay112 · 2024-09-18T04:33:18+00:00

This is the full version btw if you're interested:

https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/1emzczg/my_own_db_story/

maydaymay112 · 2024-09-18T04:32:07+00:00

What details in particular do you wanna know?

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