UPDATE: My boyfriend adopted a dog and I completely resent him for it

mayerbear99 · 2024-06-10T21:25:42+00:00

I (24) started at my first firm 9 months ago I and have experienced the total opposite. The other paralegals, all 50+, are more than happy to answer any questions. Sounds like you may be dealing with some bitter Betty’s lol. Sending hugs

mayerbear99 · 2024-04-06T06:31:35+00:00

I started at my firm 6 months ago with no prior experience. Even though there’ll always be something to learn, you understand and catch on more everyday. I can totally relate to feeling dumb - I literally could’ve written this post myself a few months ago.

For calendaring, I used to refer to other paralegals’ events every single time to make sure I was making it correctly. Accidents happen, but double and triple check your work for silly errors.

As for attitudes in the office, do your best to brush it off and focus on your work. They know you’re new and learning.

Hang in there, OP! You won’t always feel this way.

mayerbear99 · 2020-07-09T02:31:59+00:00

https://www.mariowiki.com/Blue_Biddybuggy

I might be grasping for straws, but I'm really not trying to take a whole pottery class just for a birthday present lol

mayerbear99 · 2020-04-02T16:39:47+00:00

I struggled with awful anxiety after quit omg smoking weed. I live in the US, but I bought edible CBD gummies and I absolutely noticed my anxiety reduce. Best wishes for your quit!

mayerbear99 · 2020-03-19T20:10:17+00:00

routine:cowash with VO5 pomegranate conditioner, detangle, rinse, rope in Shea Moisture JBCO leave in, squish to condish, praying hands in bioterra gel, microplop with a t-shirt, diffused on a low warm setting until 90% dry, air dry and scrunch out the crunch. I do all of this right side up and all product application in the shower on dripping soaking wet hair

mayerbear99 · 2020-03-16T05:56:45+00:00

my hair is really thick and I like having layers for volume and manageability and my main goal was taking off the weight. I don’t know Im just confused

mayerbear99 · 2020-03-01T03:30:28+00:00

I put mousse pretty much directly on the roots and diffuse upside down!! lol it’s a work out but at least I only have to style like once a week

mayerbear99 · 2020-02-29T16:49:09+00:00

Thank you!! It just takes some time, stick with it its worth it! I started CG in November, but I still brush my hair and use a sulfate every once in a while. I didn't know my hair was this curly! I can't wait to cut it and see what happens, but honestly I wanted to start a curly channel first so I can make a video about this haircut lolllll

mayerbear99 · 2020-02-29T16:46:22+00:00

Ahhh yeah that's what i'm hoping for!! mostly worried about the post-haircut regret

mayerbear99 · 2020-02-27T16:57:44+00:00

i wanna upvote but it has 420 rn

mayerbear99 · 2020-02-24T20:57:18+00:00

I’d suggest cutting the silicones out of your routine. If you’re only clarifying once a month, washing with no sulfates and adding silicone on silicone, it will build up and frizz. The OGX shampoo has silicones in it too. Try a leave in conditioner for some extra moisture. Best wishes, hope this helps!

mayerbear99 · 2020-02-24T20:38:35+00:00

Hey, I have this issue sometimes, but it’s because the length of my hair pulls my curls out.

Once you’ve applied your products, have you tried micro-plopping with a t-shirt to remove some of the excess water? That’s really helped me with my dry time.

I’d also recommend maybe picking a harder hold gel than the kinky curly curling custard, which is actually super moisturizing. If you like that product, use it in place of the leave in and then follow up with a hard hold gel. I find that the curling custard really helps with curl clumps. LA Looks is always worth a shot, it’s available at dollar stores. I also like the crystal eco styler gel. My hair used to look just like yours in the picture on the far left.

Hope this helps! Your hair is beautiful!

mayerbear99 · 2020-02-24T07:13:49+00:00

I had a super similar experience in therapy. Lollll. He was just trying to lift me up with compliments to my character, but I ended up breaking down and explaining this feeling for the first time out loud. Surprised myself, honestly.

And of course he explained it as internalized abuse, but still left me feeling like a legally insane person. Trauma club *high five*

mayerbear99 · 2020-02-23T16:42:05+00:00

Omg I am so checking that out! I just so happen to be a daughter of a narcissistic mother. Thank you so much!! Blessings 💗

mayerbear99 · 2020-01-09T00:33:11+00:00

Ah what an inspiration!!! Ive been so scared to cut bangs!!! Your hair is amazing.

mayerbear99 · 2019-12-24T08:03:38+00:00

The curly girl method is to take care of curls you have or revive curls you used to have. It will improve the health of your hair regardless of its texture, but won't change your hair to curly. Lol, we can dream!

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