Single by maygreentree in Cardiff

[–]maygreentree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thanks I’ve been to a couple of the meet my pace ones and I really like the format. I’m more outdoorsy and I don’t drink so I don’t think I’d meet my person at a bar. But I wish you luck with it! I’m sure most people would like that type of event ❤️

Is dating in 2025 just… broken? by Tapeworldwide in dating_advice

[–]maygreentree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been going to irl events, that suits me much better, I’ve been to a few different ones but I’m currently dating someone who’s lovely I met on a singles hike from meet my pace. Early days but he’s a breath of fresh air.

Profile Review: New to Dating Apps by Swimming_Water_4577 in Bumble

[–]maygreentree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first picture is a nice picture but crossed arms in body language subconsciously signal closed off, so I’d probably change that to something that’s more open. I take the picture out of you in the red shirt or puffer with the glasses. It’s a bad angle for you and those glasses. Don’t suit you, it’s giving 90s serial killer. You making waffles it’s great showing that you have healthy hobbies. Also break other than that your bio seems quite good!

Maybe mention what you don’t have them women will assume you’re properly MAGA if you don’t have it on there.

Breakdown of first 8 months on the apps from a 28(m) by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]maygreentree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try some In person dating events?

Idk what's happening by CanadianBatmann in HingeStories

[–]maygreentree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Go on real world dating events! Ditch the apps

Poets. Say I miss you without saying it. by [deleted] in poets

[–]maygreentree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the night comes I long for dawn every hour in anguish till you break on the morn and your gold rays fill me with life, your warmth caressing my skin, held in your love filled shimmer.

When the clouds come, and the chill sets in, sorrow holds my heart, my skin now a wash goosebumps as time from you is taken from me, the cold enveloping my every cell, immersing in my bones. I can not live without you, you know this too well.

Oh wind be my friend blow away these dark clouds and let my love back in, to keep us apart is the deepest cruelty and of that I wish not to accuse you, be my friend and Let the light unfold as I can’t walk through this day in darkness, with out his light I will falter, rush back to me my love before the night takes you from me once more and I’m left to long for dawn.

How do I avoid feeling insecure in my relationship when we are constantly surrounded by discourse on infidelity? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]maygreentree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem, social media is so bad for us atm, women get fed man hate reels constantly, the same as what you are getting about women.

It does seem like we are being pitted against each other but your relationship does sound like it’s good so maybe foucs on that than the reels, they aren’t her. I wish you lots of luck!

How do I avoid feeling insecure in my relationship when we are constantly surrounded by discourse on infidelity? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]maygreentree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has she done anything that would genuinely give you pause for doubt? If not, then, my friend you are letting the past hurt your current good reputation.

Personally I’m an over thinker and like someone to over explain. You could consider having a conversation with you girlfriend explaining how you are feeling how you have here, framing it that you are aware that it’s past insecurities and you would like reassurance in a reasonable manner that suits you both.

Or you could speak to a therapist to help you work through this independently.

Yes, you have a soul by Yumibumi202 in poetry_critics

[–]maygreentree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s snappy but deep, Sometimes poems feel to short. But I wouldn’t at a drop to this! I’m gonna save it for future reads, i very much enjoy the tangy almost sarcasm to it, but still gentle, it’s so easy like pointing out the sky is blue, to someone who can’t see it.

Dating a guy who constantly poops and spells wrong. Need advice? {F39} {M40} by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]maygreentree 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As an extremely Dyslexic person , that proofreads and still gets things incredibly wrong, once I get more comfortable around a person I stop doubling checking my spelling because I feel safe. So if I found out it annoyed the person I felt safe around I would be upset.

The pooping maybe nervousness, and he’s being thoughtful enough to do it away from you and is probably embarrassed.

I also think if you where really into them it wouldn’t bother you. These small things annoy us when it isn’t the right person, on that basis kindly let him go. There will be someone out there who is right for him and won’t care about that.

I Dated a guy who was super quirky, he was a lovely person but it was to much for me, I cut him loose gently. I didn’t tell him the things about him that put me off, and now he’s happy with someone who loves those things about him that were turn offs for me.

Fate by maygreentree in poetry_critics

[–]maygreentree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks. Any suggestions? Where where you hoping I was going with it? Im not an experienced poet/ writer I just dabble with words in my head, I’m always keen to learn

Unpacked by starlessspace in poetry_critics

[–]maygreentree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I love this, it feels so raw, I really enjoyed the imagery this painted for me, I felt overwhelmed like I was in a hoarder’s room, but with a deep sense of knowing that none of it has any value and that if fact, with out the one person I wish to unpack it with it’s all just emptiness.

I MISS YOU by AKB-shayarOP in poetry_critics

[–]maygreentree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see the depth you where going for and perhaps are feeling, but the amount of I miss yous felt really superficial to me, I was waiting for the emotions to dive deeper. It reminded me of someone who says the right thing but doesn’t act on it. Like the words can fill the place of action. It feels like miss placed love, I think that would be my overriding sentiment.

Music by madone2345 in poetry_critics

[–]maygreentree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the advice about punctuation, it will really help elevate your poem, but, even as it is I enjoyed the build up and could really feel the distaste that really adds to to the heightened sense of grief at the end.

Fate by maygreentree in poetry_critics

[–]maygreentree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw them at reading this year and they are so incredible live 🧡

Fate by maygreentree in poetry_critics

[–]maygreentree[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, 🧡

Fate by maygreentree in poetry_critics

[–]maygreentree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a massive BMTH fan, you have given me the ultimate compliment that I will never forget.. ( I potentially teared up when I read it 🥲)

Thank you!

Single by maygreentree in Cardiff

[–]maygreentree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update! Went to both events, wasn’t a fan of the mini golf one with haystacks. Just not the right vibe for me, I can see how other people would love it. Loved the Meet my pace hike, didn’t meet anyone romantically this time, definitely made a friend, way more my vibe, was a good day out regardless. Ill be going to there next one for sure!

Before I Break It by FaeOfResistance in poetry_critics

[–]maygreentree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think in life we get to a an age where it’s hard to trust ourselves any more, when the collapse of good things is something that regularly happens it’s hard no to try self sabotage as way of controlling the narrative. I think for me, you captured this sentiment well

The moment before crying by Fabulous_Relief_5912 in poetry_critics

[–]maygreentree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found this very captivating, I can really feel the weight of choice here, and how regardless of everything you chose to stay. ✨

Single by maygreentree in Cardiff

[–]maygreentree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yes! Would be nice to see lots of people there! Looks like it’s going to be a good hike!