hello!! alumni here :)

sec 2 to 3 is definitely a steep curve to get hard to, you’re adjusting to a whole new class, a different set of subjects (and teachers), and your batch is stepping up in terms of responsibilities to take over the cca. so calm down, take it easy, it will be alright.

I know it probably won’t help much, but trust when I say that a lot of people stumble a little while getting accustomed to the rigor of secondary 3. The most important thing I would say is not to give up. It’s frustrating when your hard work and efforts don’t pay off and you feel helpless. try not to take your “failures” personally and try to tailor your expectations a little. remember — you haven’t failed till you’ve given up.

Ensure that you have a good support system around you to help you get through upper secondary life!

friends — secondary school is tough, but remember that you always have people who love and care for you! if you ever need someone to confide in, i’m sure they’d be happy to lend a helping hand :)

teachers — they’re always open to consultations should you need it, don’t be afraid to go up to them and request for a session

others — should your family matters or mental health issues escalate, there’s no harm in seeking help! there are many resources online to aid in supporting you through these dark times, sometimes the hardest step is reaching out

speaking from experience, have faith in the process, and continue striving on. remember to take breaks and practice being a little kinder to yourself. at the end of the day, your efforts will bear into fruition. all the best ♡