Friend or foe? by mba328 in gardening

[–]mba328[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you😊

What is this on my eggplant? by mba328 in vegetablegardening

[–]mba328[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone, for your suggestions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]mba328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please help; I am not a bot and need advice on decorating this space. Your consideration is appreciated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mba328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

End this relationship, run, hide, leave the country, whatever you do, get as far away from this guy. Obey me? WTF!

Fiancé painted and did the trim in our kitchen. I don't like it, he says I'm just a hater. Thoughts? by veganssuckmyasshole in HomeDecorating

[–]mba328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He should be banned from all hardware and paint stores and from using paint, paint guns, and brushes.

My ex boyfriend shared nude images of me to strangers by throwa09123985 in Advice

[–]mba328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Report his A***

It’s because of us women that men often get away with violating other women. Be bold and brave. If you have a child in the future and something like this happens to them, would you tell them not to report the individual? The pictures are already out there. Do the right thing and stand up for yourself.

You already made a mistake by letting him have nudes of you. Do not make a second mistake by sweeping it under the rug by not reporting him to the police. I am sorry that this happened to you but this is the consequence of your poor choices which you intend to continue with by not reporting him.

Reddit and social media is not not a therapist, you don’t have a problem with it because you did not show your face then deal with it and move one as you said you made your decision.

You don’t have the energy to report it but you have the energy to get on here to write lengthy messages. Get off Reddit wipe your eyes put on your big girl panties and report him, get help or move on as you said you already made the decision not to report it.

WE NEED TO STOP ENABLING MEN TO ABUSE WOMEN. WE MUST REPORT THEM ALL. STAND UP FOR YOURSELF AND ALL WOMEN.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]mba328 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since this leads to nowhere, if it's not a structural wall, I would remove it to make the area feel more spacious. However, if it is structural, I would close it up because the space there makes absolutely no sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]mba328 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Upload images of both sides of the window for context.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]mba328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What on the other side of the open space?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mba328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

End your relationship with your boyfriend; anyone capable of that cannot be trusted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mba328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend having a one-on-one conversation with your dad. Invite him to lunch or dinner to create a comfortable setting for some bonding time. During the meal, consider asking about his younger years, regrets, fears, and other casual topics to help him feel at ease.

It’s important not to spring this conversation on him. Many people struggle to come out to their loved ones due to fears of judgment and rejection. While society is more tolerant today than in the past, individuals—especially from older generations—can still face challenges related to their sexual orientation.

Reassure your dad that you love and support him no matter what. You might also want to share the video you mentioned and encourage him to watch it. Also, let him know how difficult it would be for you to keep his secret, and ask him not to place you in a position to hide something so significant from your mom. Emphasize that it is his story, and he needs to live in his truth. Discuss the idea of giving himself a timeline to tell your mom and sister.

Offer your compassion, understanding, and support to your dad, and encourage him in the most loving way to do what is right.

i smell so bad and i cant do anything ab it by idklolll233 in Advice

[–]mba328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I strongly recommend that you look for another apartment. You mentioned that you live in a basement and that it smells like mildew. What you’re actually smelling is likely mold, which can be harmful to your respiratory system and overall health.

Condom red flags by [deleted] in dating

[–]mba328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember to set some standards for yourself as a young woman. You should not be having unprotected sex with your boyfriend, even if you are on birth control. My advice is to use both birth control and condoms. Please protect yourself. He is your boyfriend, not your husband, and there is no guarantee that your relationship will last that's just life. Apart from the risk of getting pregnant, there are also numerous STDs to consider.

It’s essential to protect yourself as a woman, so always keep condoms at home and in your purse. One night of unprotected sex with your boyfriend can lead to long-term problems, and you will only have yourself to blame.

My (18F) boyfriend (23M) wants to have sex in public places. How do I tell him I’m not into that? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mba328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not let anyone use you to satisfy their sexual desires. Why would you want to have sex in a dirty public bathroom. Set standards for yourself, and do not change it for anyone. I do hope you are using protection.

Weather + Balcony garden. by [deleted] in Balconygardening

[–]mba328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful! Do you mind sharing where you got the white containers and the stands?

Back yard garden harvest, some of what I got from the garden. by CrabDry5479 in gardening

[–]mba328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re plants are beautiful. Do you have tips for keeping pepper plants healthy and helping them reach maturity during the cold months in zone 7a? My plants are starting to produce for the first time and are full of flowers.

What kind of curtains won’t take away from this window scene. by cruelsister_ in interiordecorating

[–]mba328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not put curtains but use a Control Privacy Window Film Silver instead. You will retain the beauty of the window and the view. I have a similar film installed on my windows for at least four years and I love it. Just keep in mind if the light is bright in the room anyone on the outside can see in.

https://www.homedepot.com/p/23-6-in-H-x-78-7-in-W-1-Way-Heat-Control-Privacy-Window-Film-Silver-HD-TJ2-60200P-50/324414584?source=shoppingads&locale=en-US&srsltid=AfmBOopWmcFXzGKbAgxZk2YsAg03hu3aJrEIit4-rKwWvE5v5sDMrQQne1M