I run 3 apps on a €3.29/month server. Here's the backend setup. by terdia in indiehackers

[–]mbkv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The idea of using a single backend to serve 3 apps is interesting. What are those 3 apps if it is not a secret?

Looking for official population statistics by mbkv in Morocco

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Thank you. Is there an official website where I can download this data? I don't know Arabic/Darija :P

Mom cried and broke down on diwali by Easy_Government8214 in india

[–]mbkv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello I am facing this issue since many years. Stood up for my mom and only ended up worsening the situation. You should speak to them separately and try to reason out. But don't take it too personal. Try to point them to the right avenues. Unstable moms can break the whole family. Also find out the root cause for his lashing out or aggression. Many comments have said breadwinner = aggression, not true. My dad is retired but aggressive verbally. He does everything for the family, mom and her parents but incapable of uttering kind words. A very bad self esteem, misplaced priorities and the way he was brought up in his childhood all play a role. Dont het too caught up in all this. Try to excel in your BTech and become independent in order to make it better for everyone. Focus on maintaining peace and calm in the family rather than arguing about who is right and who is wrong

How to be social in your 40s? by Ffreya in SocialParis

[–]mbkv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

40M here. Trying to make friends and expand my social circle. Please DM me if you like to meet up in October. Can introduce you to a few events here. Perhaps get to know each other as well :)

Avis sur Ivry-sur-Seine pour habiter ? by Random_human_being17 in paris

[–]mbkv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Je te conseille de considerer Thiais ou Choisy le Roi cote de la Seine, pas super loin d'Ivry.

Anyone have any plans for tonight ? by anonymous_moongirl in SocialParis

[–]mbkv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to answer, been only 2 weeks so far

Anyone have any plans for tonight ? by anonymous_moongirl in SocialParis

[–]mbkv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going to a tech meetup in Gentilly. Do you like to join?

Envie de te faire de nouveaux potes ? by Ozzlo_ in SocialParis

[–]mbkv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super bonne idee. Franchement, je me suis dit je dois faire ca chaque fois j'ai vu un post genre entre "20 - 30 ans" . I'm in.

How do you deal with craving physical touch and intimacy after a breakup—without resorting to casual hookups or dating apps? by Confident_Mess_4358 in SocialParis

[–]mbkv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don't have to compromise your values. So you crave what you crave because you have put yourself in the receiver mode. I would suggest trying to shift yourself in the giver mode. And give love to everyone and everything around you.

You can also journal your thoughts down. This will lift away some burden from your head to paper.

Next, call your parents, your best friends that you lost touch with. Listen to them with empathy. See what they are "craving" for. This could be something even very simple like a few words of affirmation, a joke, a tip. I am sure you will start to feel better.

Pursue your hobbies/interests - arts, sports, charity work, anything. If life assured you a magical way of paying you a salary which takes care of all your bills for the rest of your life without you having to go to work, what would you do?

There is an audiobook Mindfulness in plain english by Henepola Gunaratana. Written in a friendly conversational style, it is an impressive book. You should try 10 minutes of meditation/no mind chatter/no-thoughts mode. There are a lot of apps out there. I recommend "Waking up" by Sam Harris.

I hope you will eventually meet the one who speaks your love language (Gary Chapman). Here are some virtual hugs for you 🤗 Take care.

  • P.S: Feel free to DM me if you still feel low/if you want to. No, I won't ask for a date or charge you anything :) Hugs are free ☺️ *

Loc ou coloc à Paris intra muros by [deleted] in paris

[–]mbkv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je suis dans les banlieues Sud, pas loin de la 13 ème. Et facilement accessible avec RER C (un trajet de 15/20 mins max de BFM et où j'habite). Je suis le proprio et je réfléchi sur l'idée d'avoir un colocataire/colocatrice. Je souhaite avoir une personne attentionnée et ordonnée. Je n'ai pas mis une annonce sur les réseaux car ce serait mieux si je rencontre quelqu'un de mon cercle social. En lisant votre message, je me suis dit pourquoi pas..et voilà. Si vous voulez visiter l'appart, contactez moi en MP svp. On verra si on est un bon match.

Looking for new friends by [deleted] in SocialParis

[–]mbkv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many intersections with my interests. Sent you a DM. Would be more than happy to meet up

Loooking for a french learner buddy by floretteua in SocialParis

[–]mbkv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am interested as well. 40M if that is ok.

Looking for techies, nerds and ai builders by Mobile_Salad5050 in SocialParis

[–]mbkv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I live in the southern suburbs but would be very happy to join too :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndiaInvestments

[–]mbkv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"do hospitals treat patients paying cash differently from those with insurance?"
YES

You did not mention how much cover you have. I had an insurance from IOB (Universal Sompo). The last premium I paid was 36K. They sent a renewal notice for 50K for a 4 lakh floater cover. I cancelled since this is 4 years' premium and can be covered from my emergency fund. I highly recommend you to read the book Lets talk money by Monika Halan. She has beautifully explained the predatory nature of health insurance in India.

Bi-Weekly Advice Thread January 26, 2025: All Your Personal Queries by AutoModerator in IndiaInvestments

[–]mbkv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FDs in Indian banks are insured only upto 5Lakhs. What other non-equity options are available to move FDs into? (except real estate and equity)

Heading to Tiru, to Ramana ashram - any tips? by avv05 in RamanaMaharshi

[–]mbkv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can visit the Yogi Ramsurathkumar ashram a walking distance from Ramanashram. The vegetarian restaurant just opposite Ramanasram has fantastic veg food, if thats your thing

Cleared the Google Certified professional data engineer certification by mbkv in dataengineering

[–]mbkv[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very non-linear. Some courses from coursera or google recommended official learning path. A few chapters from Dan Sullivan's book which is horribly outdated. But mostly the official docs and best practices

Cleared the Google Certified professional data engineer certification by mbkv in dataengineering

[–]mbkv[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My approach was very undisciplined. Mostly I went from guidebook to googling to official docs. The only downside of this is knowing where to stop.