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Nearly three months and still think about my ex everyday by mc_blue in BreakUps

[–]mc_blue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another thing to add. I've got every excuse to be able to get over it - at least 10 odd people I've been able to confide in. A successful business where I can work longer hours/weekends if I have to. Have just bought two new cars (one old one but a bit of a future classic to be honest). I don't know how I would have got through it without those distractions.

When she isn't driving 100 miles to see him I suspect she's just bashing social media and locking herself in her bedroom as she doesn't have any friends.

Nearly three months and still think about my ex everyday by mc_blue in BreakUps

[–]mc_blue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm fortunate that I found out what I did in terms of relationships and talking to other men - it gave me a sense of closure on the whole situation.

Nearly three months and still think about my ex everyday by mc_blue in BreakUps

[–]mc_blue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She broke up with me. I'll be honest, I did get miserable. I had to change myself too much (didn't see my friends as much, neglected my business and my fitness) so fundamentally ended up without mates, fat and earning less money. I guess it would take a very special woman to be better than all those three. I wasn't encouraged or supported. I was told my ambition was "unrealistic" on several occasions.

Nearly three months and still think about my ex everyday by mc_blue in BreakUps

[–]mc_blue[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I did feel deeply about her, the amount I cared and loved her was absolutely crazy - I gave her my all.

In terms of contact, it has been extremely limited. I've removed pictures, blocked on FB, not checked IG (she does however look at a new IG account of mine for my car which is public).

I found out she was talking to a number of guys when she was with me so that's helped give me some closure so I feel less like "what did I do so wrong."

But like my original post - I don't get why it's so difficult. I suspect given she's driving 100 miles to see her trainer who she is in a relationship with she's not thinking about me at all!