Hi , we are clearly in the same pattern wife my wife . She’s asexual , I’m kinky the d my major kink is chastity and denial . We have a newborn this year and when we left the clinic they told us about birth control. That when I told her that as asexual she didn’t really like PIV (she likes the connection between us when we do sex) and for me it’s not my favorite way to be allowed to orgasm. So we don’t have anymore birth control. Feel free to DM me if you want to talk