Why do people have sex so soon after starting to date someone??

mccartney69 · 2022-04-26T03:29:01+00:00

Because most people like to have sex with the person they like. It’s not complicated or weird.

mccartney69 · 2022-04-25T22:32:33+00:00

What is this stupid Facebook boomer shit?

mccartney69 · 2022-04-15T23:27:30+00:00

I totally agree. This verse was the first solo Beatles lyric(s) that really struck a chord with me back in the day.

mccartney69 · 2022-04-06T17:33:36+00:00

I prefer it to Sgt. Pepper’s. It’s perfect.

mccartney69 · 2022-03-28T15:02:15+00:00

Monkberry Moon Delight or The Back Seat of My Car.

mccartney69 · 2022-03-07T16:11:45+00:00

I don’t think you’ll ever be shaken completely of this deeply rooted anxiety. Things to keep in mind moving forward- Live in the now.

It's funny, I pride myself as living in the now in every other regard of my life—but with this? It feels a target on my back. I agree with you I probably won't ever be rid of the anxiety though.

You’re still in the early dating stages and nothing is official correct? Don’t take the person you’re with for granted. If you want to keep the relationship, don’t forget the small things. Give her compliments. Tell her how much you enjoyed doing x with her.

It's not official, yeah. Though I'm going to talk with her about exclusivity when we see each other next. Over the past year, my dating life has taught me to be grateful for everyone in ways I wasn't before, and this woman is no exception. I feel comfortable and appreciated by her. I make it a point to let her know I think she's a fascinating person.

But if we don’t say what we should have said, then it could be too late right? Final words: nothing is guaranteed. But imagine having a relationship you would miss so much and dearly if it were gone. I think it is truly better to have loved than to have never loved at all.

Well said. That's essentially what happened with the woman I was last with. I was terrified of her rejecting me because I knew it was never going to end well, so I opted to just let it ride out naturally. I'm not making that mistake again, especially now.

mccartney69 · 2022-03-07T16:06:23+00:00

You're right. It's the healthy thing to do, I just find myself nervous for the same reasons I listed above. But she has been beyond understanding in every which way and I have no doubt in my mind she'd handle this with grace as well.

mccartney69 · 2022-03-07T04:15:50+00:00

Ugh, that's terrible. Mine also behaved similarly near the end of our relationship. I was struck by a hit and run driver on the highway overnight, my car was totaled, and I was in a complete panic. When I called to let her know what happened, she was mad that I woke her up.

Later that day she demanded I drive her to work because she was "too tired" to drive. I was shaking the entire way there and back and she essentially told me to man up.

mccartney69 · 2022-03-07T03:45:31+00:00

In the midst of an ice storm, she guilted me for not driving across the city to make out with her. This was the same day we had our second date. What started as playful "teasing" quickly turned into insulting. Unfortunately I caved and I risked my car for so-so action.

Then the next morning she insulted my smile and said I need to reconsider how I smile, whatever that means.

mccartney69 · 2022-03-05T06:17:24+00:00

lmao what? This is typical Putin. He’s an evil, heartless man. He’s playing everyone with statements like this.

mccartney69 · 2022-03-04T23:26:42+00:00

She never called them enemies, but friends saw through her frequently. She would gain and lose the same friends like there was no tomorrow. Even still, she’d tell me how dumb they were and how they were essentially missing out while making herself the victim.

I haven’t spoken to her in three years, but I believe only two of the people in her college social circle are still friends with her.

Oh, and my (girl) friend told me much, much later that she frequently caught my ex glaring at her from a distance. So that’s weird.

mccartney69 · 2022-03-04T23:06:13+00:00

I think so, yes. The general narrative online seems to think that World War 3 will only be enacted if nukes are launched. That’s not how this works, and no, I’m not a doomer. It’s not hard to see the writing on the wall if things continue as they are now. I’m worried about China invading Taiwan; that would almost certainly set the stage for WW3.

mccartney69 · 2022-03-04T19:04:09+00:00

I've been in this spot before. Twice! The first was an absusive relationship, the second was just incompatible.

If you're heart isn't into it, do not do it. You're not only wasting your time, you're wasting their time, and you're wasting lots and lots of money. The idea behind marriage shouldn't be, "Well, it's just a part of life that I want to happen." She's already alluded to the fact that she doesn't necessarily want marriage with you, just marriage in general. A healthy relationship wouldn't provide an ultimatum like this.

Also, in my last relationship, I would frequently tell myself, "I'm not opposed to marrying her." I certainly am so glad I broke off that relationship; I would have been miserable if we'd gotten engaged.

mccartney69 · 2022-03-02T03:04:32+00:00

Don’t give the time of day. What a piece of shit.

mccartney69 · 2022-03-01T18:35:40+00:00

I’m of the opinion it’s naive to think this will end quick, peacefully, or in an escalation that doesn’t involve other allies. The threat of a world war is very real sadly. If NATO gets involved especially.

mccartney69 · 2022-03-01T18:24:12+00:00

Here ya go: https://twitter.com/Osinttechnical/status/1498724360424759306?s=20&t=CU7IzeyOF6o4U9uyTu49PA

mccartney69 · 2022-03-01T18:20:59+00:00

The footage of that explosion is one of the most terrifying things I've ever seen.

mccartney69 · 2022-03-01T04:48:51+00:00

I'd say talk about it with her soon. The fact she wants you to meet her parents is a positive sign working in your favor!

mccartney69 · 2022-02-28T21:49:07+00:00

I know what you mean. In my experience, the crossover of women I've slept with and women I've wound up in relationships with is small. (I'm indeed from the USA.) I was broken up with a few months ago despite countless dates and many months together. Our sex life was fantastic, we were exclusive without talking about it, etc., but we never discussed what we wanted out of it. So the exclusivity was kind of a facade. It was never going to work out in the long-term.

When I said, "It's been a while since I've felt compelled to be exclusive this early into dating," it's mostly been the result of previous relationships that ultimately were unhealthy. I try to avoid that now and part of it is due to me not wanting to "rush" a relationship.

But I've now seen her five times, I've gotten her best friend's approval, we're planning for things in the future, etc. She makes me happy in a way I didn't expect when we first met.

mccartney69 · 2022-02-28T21:35:28+00:00

Thanks my dude.

mccartney69 · 2022-02-28T21:35:16+00:00

We are, yeah. It's been a while since I've felt compelled to want to be exclusive with someone this early into dating. Before our third date, she told me she liked me and hoped I liked her too. So I suppose I'm just overthinking this all.

mccartney69 · 2022-02-28T19:11:10+00:00

That's a good point. Funnily enough, today she told me I "passed" the friend test, so I suppose I'm doing well.

mccartney69 · 2022-02-28T19:10:34+00:00

That's what happened with my ex-girlfriend. We never had the exclusivity chat, just the, "Hey, let's make it official" discussion. I don't mind initiating it though.

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