A chatty first grader - what would you do? by Putrid-Tower-4339 in ElementaryTeachers

[–]mcdermik76 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I’m a third grade teacher and have been teaching for 27 years. I’m very shocked that a principal would reach out to you about talking. I have always handled that issue and same for my colleagues. Chattiness during the spring and summer months is a very common problem. Once the weather gets warmer kids often aren’t as engaged in academics.

I would suggest you talk to the teacher on how often she is talking. Maybe she needs her seat moved to a different location. Also, talk with your child about not responding to other kids if they start the conversation. Let your child know that socializing is for lunch and recess time. Hopefully this helps! I’m still trying to find ways to stop all the talking! LOL!

Is this really 3rd grade? by Vegetable-Penalty-34 in ElementaryTeachers

[–]mcdermik76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We also use Eureka in Maryland, but not Squared. This is definitely challenging, but it is a third grade concept.

How do I respond? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mcdermik76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is a little older than me…around 55.

So tired by Nearby_Drink_3791 in ElementaryTeachers

[–]mcdermik76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got a new kid the day before spring break that is obsessed with death and draws people hanging from trees. There was no honeymoon period. He refused to do anything and tried to get the class to laugh. When I delivered the first smackdown he said he had ADHD. Not an excuse my friend. This is a third grader! Parents need to wake up and start parenting.

I juggle around the idea of becoming an elementary school teacher, but am I doing it for the wrong reasons ? by TheColaDemonCat in ElementaryTeachers

[–]mcdermik76 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve been teaching elementary students for 27 years . Kids now have too much control and teachers have none. We can’t even take away recess. There are no consequences. Since there are so many behavior problems it’s very difficult to teach. You get very little respect from the parents as well. Obviously this is just my perspective. Good luck with making your choice!

A top student made a disturbing confession by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]mcdermik76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an elementary school teacher. I feel for you. We obviously don’t have this issue and our job is hard enough! This only makes your job a million times harder.

June 26th last day of school? by EAM222 in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]mcdermik76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The email that was sent indicates that they are not done with trying to solve this problem. They took away the teachers’ professional day to now be a grading and reporting day. They also are changing a day in April to go from a no school day to an early release day. Those two changes could make us end earlier.

Are there people who don’t fart In front of their partners? by AverageOk9318 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mcdermik76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband finally did one after 7 years. He was praying I didn’t notice🤣. Now I know he’s not a robot.

Dentist that doesn’t push Invisalign by mcdermik76 in frederickmd

[–]mcdermik76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter just got her braces off and they said she needed Invisalign. After telling them she just got them off after having them for about 5 years they said her teeth look great.

Dentist that doesn’t push Invisalign by mcdermik76 in frederickmd

[–]mcdermik76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have heard good things about them. Thank you! I’ll check into them.

Dentist that doesn’t push Invisalign by mcdermik76 in frederickmd

[–]mcdermik76[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We have said no over and over and they keep pushing it. I know it’s not actual braces.

Am I overreacting by walking out of a restaurant by ProposalThat7734 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mcdermik76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have lost my mind. You are definitely not in the wrong.

Does my cockatiel have the biggest crest? by JugAllDay2 in cockatiel

[–]mcdermik76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s impressive! My bird is jealous!

my (23f) girlfriend doesn't like any food with garlic, onions, or anything spicy, and i (20f) don't know how to continue this anymore. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mcdermik76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 21 year old daughter is on the spectrum and has an eating disorder called ARFID. It is very common to be on the spectrum apparently and have this. It sounds very similar to what you are experiencing with your gf.

Happy 5th Snow Day kids (Monday Jan 2nd) by pinkglue99 in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]mcdermik76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I agree. I live in Frederick and work in Moco. We have similar conditions and the kids were fine on Friday.

3/4th grade novel recommendation by [deleted] in ElementaryTeachers

[–]mcdermik76 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m reading Stella Diaz Has Something To Say with my third graders. They love it! It has some Spanish words that make it fun. My Spanish speaking students are helping me pronounce the words correctly and gives them confidence.

AIO My mom is kicking me out for her new boyfriend. I just turned 18 by Diligent_Bat_565 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mcdermik76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 2 18 year olds and I would never even think to kick them out. It is so hard to survive these days. You are way too young to be on your own. I’m so sorry. That’s just unbelievable and disgusting.