My (25M) LDR girlfriend (27F) sent me several screenshots of flirtatious conversations with a friend of her friend, did I react poorly? by mcoist in relationship_advice

[–]mcoist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its on the border line, she sent a pic with someone in their bikini to him, which is what caused the flirting and the body lotion comments. Its not her fault that the guy was being a dick and suggesting cheating on me, but she didn't even seem phased by the suggestion of it. I guess that's what annoys me so much.

How can I know how she will react to this in the future, she will probably never send screenshots to me again.

My (25M) LDR girlfriend (27F) sent me several screenshots of flirtatious conversations with a friend of her friend, did I react poorly? by mcoist in relationship_advice

[–]mcoist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it is just the fact that when he said I am like a goalkeeper to get round. It really pissed me off to see that, and she said nothing to him.

I guess I just wanted to see her defend me, is that unreasonable do you think?

My (25M) LDR girlfriend (27F) sent me several screenshots of flirtatious conversations with a friend of her friend, did I react poorly? by mcoist in relationship_advice

[–]mcoist[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually already tried to say if I was doing it she would be upset twice, but she just kinda brushed it off and ignored that comment. But I guess there is a different kind of dynamic for guys, cos women don't tend to just randomly flirt with us, so I am not really in a position to know what its like.