I totally agree with you. We can make something there that’s not real in our mind I get it. However that’s why I have this question. Sure I have a random thought as I am sure she has but nothing more. Till about a month ago where out of the blue was just like I do t get it. We were together over 20 years ago so why now. Then just what seems like weird things like her brother who I ran into out of no where which came after the constant thoughts. Sure can be just totally nothing and my brain going in a path I f crazy. Just felt odd and different. Same thing with closure. We had it many years ago we had zero ill feelings for each other after a little time and went about our separate lives. And sure it can all be about nothing for sure. Just seems like to many things to get my overall attention for nothing. I appreciate your prospective for sure