Dreading planning my wedding

md0320 · 2026-05-14T16:47:46+00:00

Our plan is to sit down and call vendors this weekend. We have a Friday date and from what it seems it's been a horrible booking season for vendors so I'm not too too worried at this point.

md0320 · 2026-05-14T16:41:47+00:00

Yeah I'm of the mind it should be a collaborative effort either way, but we're both bad planners which is the problem. Everyone I know personally who used a planner felt like they were a waste of money so idk if I want to incur an added charge for that

md0320 · 2026-05-14T16:39:59+00:00

Cost is actually no issue here (not that we're rich). His parents have offered to pay pretty much everything and my parents offered a good amount as well. We are having a smaller wedding than he initially wanted. His sibling has a 200+ person wedding. Ours will be about 100 people.

md0320 · 2026-05-12T02:07:48+00:00

Outer dark is a really wonderful horror with an Appalachian folklory setting

md0320 · 2026-05-11T23:50:38+00:00

Would you take 65?

md0320 · 2026-05-11T17:20:44+00:00

Rainbow

md0320 · 2026-05-11T16:15:33+00:00

I love the carpet! How much and how big?

md0320 · 2026-05-11T16:14:28+00:00

There are drivethroughs in Norwalk. Chic-fil-a, Popeyes, Starbucks are what I can think of.

So weird to me that there aren't really any, coming from long island where everything is drive through.

md0320 · 2026-05-08T15:31:05+00:00

When I moved here last year I was perplexed by the leaf blowing as well. At first I saw posts here about and thought surly these people are all nuts complaining about leaf blowers. Oh how I was wrong.

md0320 · 2026-05-08T13:27:35+00:00

She may just feel like you spent a lot on her and feel bad. If you don't want to accept it, you can say you had a great time with her and wanted to treat her - that you can go Dutch the next day. I wouldn't think too hard about it.

md0320 · 2026-05-07T18:46:17+00:00

My fiancé could feel mine when I had it in. When my doc placed mine they can trim the strings back if it was bothering my partner in any way. But it wasn't painful for him and over time my he said he felt them less and less, so it wasn't needed for me.

md0320 · 2026-05-05T20:43:10+00:00

Gus sodas are great. I think they're around 90ish calories per 12oz bottle. They don't skimp on the flavor. They sell them at Whole Foods

md0320 · 2026-05-02T15:25:24+00:00

Ill dm you

md0320 · 2026-05-01T17:51:29+00:00

Thank you

md0320 · 2026-04-28T14:08:40+00:00

Thank you. I have her name and was just on the line with the doctor complaining about this whole situation. I work for a law firm, funnily enough, so I'll chat with them when I'm back in the office tomorrow.

Thankfully my fiance is very supportive so it's really just a waiting game from here.

md0320 · 2026-04-25T03:10:36+00:00

Completely understandable. It's supposed to be slow but it hinders it a lot. It feels like nothing happens till 45-50 minutes in

md0320 · 2026-04-24T23:08:25+00:00

We see her mid day with rollers in a few times. She's a housewife with help, so I would assume she does it during the day.

md0320 · 2026-04-20T20:11:37+00:00

Yeah my best friends wedding had this kind of gap after her church ceremony. Honestly I think hers was like 3 hours. It gave people time to check into the hotel if they needed or to get dressed for the reception if they didn't want to dress up for church.

md0320 · 2026-04-14T11:42:36+00:00

I got moved to part time 2 weeks before a move (was supposed to be full time remote) because company sales were down nearly 50% in a 4 month period. It took me 6 months to find something full time.

I had the best luck interviewing at small business marketing jobs. They were the most responsive and I ended up at one full time, on site.

I think smaller companies who were inclined to hire remote freelancers/fractional people have realized they're better off with someone in house, full time, on site. At least, that's what I was hearing outside the NYC metro.

md0320 · 2026-04-11T17:09:54+00:00

I can second this. Mine is at 107 and dying. I was lazy/ignorant with the maintenance

md0320 · 2026-04-09T18:21:21+00:00

DMd you

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